Wine, Wine, Wine

Written by Clyde Dennis


What inrepparttar world is up!

Was there a full moon or something? As I went through this past week I was struck by what seemed to berepparttar 122706 theme forrepparttar 122707 week. I came torepparttar 122708 conclusion that there are some career whiners out there. I mean people whine about any and everything. Let me just float this out there... Whining is not going to fix a problem!

Now God only knows I surely have my challenges, and do in fact do my fair share of moaning and complaining (like now) butrepparttar 122709 difference is for me it's a temporary state. It's not where I spend my time. There are those who can't seem to put together a complete sentence without having a problem with something.

If you're one of these people stop it already. If you're not but you find yourself inrepparttar 122710 presence of one who is, don't walk away, runaway from them. It's contagious and detrimental to your state of mind and attitude. Which equates to what you can do and accomplish. If a whiner starts walking toward you don't hesitate, get away as fast as you can or they'll suckrepparttar 122711 life right out of you. Really.

Negative Self-talk is Too Expensive

Written by Alan Fairweather


I'm always fascinated byrepparttar people who lift huge weights, particularly in competitions likerepparttar 122705 Olympic Games. There are events for men and women and they get up on stage to lift a bar with huge weights attached. I often wonder what sort of things they're saying to themselves as they pace up and down, rubbing their hands with resin powder and taking huge breaths.

What if they were saying - "That looks really heavy - it's heavier than anything I've lifted before. I'll probably drop it, make a real fool of myself and even injure myself to boot….!" Do you know what's going to happen if they say all this stuff to themselves? Their subconscious will say - "Okay, you say you're going to drop it. Then, that's what I'll arrange - and I'll try to make sure you injure yourself atrepparttar 122706 same time."

Of course, that isn't what happens. This weight lifter, who's trained for years to do precisely this thing, is screaming at himself internally - "You're going to lift that bar and push it right throughrepparttar 122707 ceiling! You're going to breakrepparttar 122708 world record! You're going to win this competition and everyone inrepparttar 122709 world will see you doing it!"

Inrepparttar 122710 day-to-day tasks that we face in our life, we should be no different from these sportsmen and women. Think negative thoughts and that's what your subconscious will focus upon.

If you think illness, you'll become ill. If you think gloom and doom - that's what you'll get. But if you think health, happiness and success - you're already there.

"Most people are as happy as they make up their minds to be" - Abraham Lincoln.

I read this quote some years ago and I know some people have a problem with it. We all face difficult situations in our lives and some people more than others. However, I've made up my mind to be as happy as I can and I recommend you dorepparttar 122711 same.

Focus onrepparttar 122712 positive things in your life -repparttar 122713 things you can do - notrepparttar 122714 things you can't. Think about what you've achieved inrepparttar 122715 past - not what you haven't. Look at where you're going - not where you've been

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