Your thoughts become words, your words become actions and your actions become your destiny. Someone else came up with that, but I've always remembered it because it's true. Our actions show who we truly are and how shallow or deep our character is.

Where we are today is a direct reflection of words, thoughts and actions we took days, months and years ago. No matter how much we blame our parents, teachers, where we grew up, television, government or anything else, truth is that nobody got you where you are today but yourself. The longer we choose to not take responsibility for our lives, longer we'll living uninspired lives that we don't love.

I've heard 40 year old adults who complain about their lives and take no responsibility for what they've created. Give me a break. If you think you're on receiving end of life you're mistaken and too lazy to do anything about it.

Keep your focus on what is working - for you and for others. We are bombarded with negative input all day long. We need to watch what goes in because our livelihoods depend on what we creatively crank out. Our heads need to be full of positive inspiration or free space where we can dream.

Remember old phrase "garbage in, garbage out"? When you make it onto television are you going to be on Jerry Springer or Oprah?

You remember possibilities you imagined your life would be when you were a child. You decide to take off coats and start running joyfully through spring fields you forgot about. You move into light where you finally begin to laugh and live feeling inspired every day instead of simply walking around reacting to life, complaining, counting down days to next weekend or vacation until you finally die.

Start taking off coats that have layered your soul since you started to grow up. Forget about negativity of news. Donít believe negative people telling you that you canít make more money or move to a nicer city or do anything to better your life. Ignore all forces telling you what you canít do. Close your ears to people who blame their boss, government, their friends, and their circumstances for what they donít like about their lives.

Itís time to leave ëem all behind and say ìSee ya!î Itís time to adopt a new Belief System (yeah, whatever we believe is simply B.S. ñ just opinions we made up that may or may not actually be true.) Itís time to drop all that limited thinking that keeps you stuck on birth-school-work(paycheck-to-paycheck)-death merryñgo-round.

Itís time to learn magic of saying YES. Iím going to make YES your new favorite word. Imagine what you want most in life right now. Dream BIG. Think of what your ideal life would look like. See all tiny details. You have no limitations. You can have exactly what you want.

Money is no object. Your time is your own to spend as you like for as long as you wish. Dream BIGGER now. What fills your soul with more joy than youíve ever felt before? Remember best experience of your life? Start there and make it as amazing as you can.

How are you spending your days and nights? Who are you with? What are you doing? What emotions are coming up? What smells are in air? What are your favorite foods that youíre eating and tasting? What cities and countries are you visiting? What are you wearing?