Why Won’t He Listen!

Written by Carol M. Welsh


You act or react to people based on how you perceive them. Those perceptions are influenced by your perceptual styles: Audio, Feeler, Visual, and Wholistic. The style withrepparttar highest score influences how you listen and communicaterepparttar 130303 most. For instance, when you speak to an Audio, you need to collect your thoughts so you can get torepparttar 130304 point as quickly as possible. If you ramble, he will tune you out or interrupt you by asking you to get torepparttar 130305 point. When you speak to a Visual, you need to show him what you are talking about or speak in descriptive terms so he can visualize what you are talking about. He needs to visualize each step or part ofrepparttar 130306 picture you are describing to understand. If you bombard him with too much information upfront, he will give you a blank stare because it put him on information overload, leading to frustration for both you and him. When you speak to a Feeler, it’s your tone of voice that he hears and remembers. If you start accusing him that he never listens, he will immediately feel uncomfortable because he wants to please you and obviously you are displeased. He might not listen because you are an Audio who can easily blurt out your feelings, often loudly or maybe in a sarcastic voice. The loudness or tone of voice intimidatesrepparttar 130307 Feeler so he may withdraw with hurt feelings. When you speak to a Wholistic, it’s best to get torepparttar 130308 point quickly or he might cut you off and finish your sentence because he thinks he knows what you are going to say. Often he’s right but when he’s not, you need to explain that, no, that wasn’t what you were going to say and to please not interrupt. What are your and his styles? Inrepparttar 130309 following table, rank each ofrepparttar 130310 perceptual styles from 1 – 5 for each “action” area. For instance, ifrepparttar 130311 description for Wholistic describes yourepparttar 130312 most, enter a “5” inrepparttar 130313 “Me” box. Ifrepparttar 130314 Audio description fits yourepparttar 130315 least, enter a “1” in that box and so forth. Then rank each ofrepparttar 130316 Four Perceptions as to how you perceive they describe him.

ActionsMeHimMeHimMeHimMeHim How you…Audio FeelerVisualWholistic Communicate:In direct manner with few details. Get torepparttar 130317 bottom line. May inter-rupt with “andrepparttar 130318 point is…?”Through touching. Describe feelings involved. Need details explained – don’t want to make a mistake.With expressive eyes. Prefer “show” over “tell.” Speak in descriptive detail. Like to talk, act out stories.Persuasively. Think out loud–talk to your-self. May interrupt a person and finishrepparttar 130319 sentence. How you…Audio FeelerVisualWholistic

The Monogram Theme Wedding

Written by Blake Kritzberg


Monograms are a huge trend in weddings, torepparttar point where they feature strongly in some, and in others, providerepparttar 130300 actual theme. And what’s not to like about monograms? They’re elegant, understated, versatile, and a dramatic visual reminder of your new life together.

Ways to include monograms You’ll find them popping up in more and more places throughoutrepparttar 130301 reception, and sometimes even prior to it. Here are some ways that brides include monograms:

- embossed, stamped or printed bridal stationary - custom postage stamps (see www.funstamps.com) - stationary seals or stickers

- painted aisle runners - printed bridal bouquet ribbons - bridal underwear or garter - bridal handkerchief - accent to bridal train, veil or gown - ring bearer’s pillow

- stamped or printed out-of-town bags - bridesmaids’ totes

- guestbook - engraved guestbook pen - tablecloths - chair covers - place cards and menus - cocktail napkins - coasters - centerpieces - engraved cake server set - cake embellishment - wood, wire, metal, chocolate or acrylic monogram cake topper - monogram wreaths of silk or real flowers - fabric wall or door banners - champagne flutes - bottled water labels - “tears of joy” packs - monogrammed wedding favors: cookies, ornaments, shot glasses, votive candles, chocolates, petit fours, notepads, favor boxes - dance floor “gobo” projections

How do I get a monogram? You make it! Many brides find they can “roll their own” using a readily-available software program such as Microsoft Word or PowerPoint. If you’re a graphic designer or have access to high-end tools, you’d probably prefer Adobe Illustrator, but Word or PowerPoint are also fine. If you’ve played around but don’t likerepparttar 130302 results, call on an arty friend.

To design your monogram in Microsoft Word: Choose Insert -> Textbox. Type and formatrepparttar 130303 letterrepparttar 130304 way you like it. Do this three times. Now click on all textboxes and choose Format->Textbox. Choose Color: No Fill (so you can overlap letters) and Line: No Line. Select all letters, right click, and choose Group to lock inrepparttar 130305 arrangement. You can now copy your image into Microsoft Paint and save in several formats, such as JPEG.

To design your monogram in PowerPoint: You’ll want to use “Word Art” to create your letters. Click onrepparttar 130306 blue tilted “A” onrepparttar 130307 bottom toolbar for each letter. Format them to your liking. When you’re done designing, select allrepparttar 130308 letters, right-click, and choose Grouping->Group. Now you can click on your image and right-click for Save as Image. PowerPoint lets you save directly in formats like JPEG, PNG and TIFF.

Some more design tips: The bride’s initial goes first in a monogram. Whenrepparttar 130309 bride takesrepparttar 130310 groom’s last name,repparttar 130311 order is: bride’s first initial, shared last initial (usually larger), groom’s first initial.

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