Who Should Relocate In A Long Distance Relationship?Written by Maria Madeira
My Dear Lover,
Soon or later, you and your beloved will have to take decision of who should move, because it is very hard to live apart.
Moving will change your life drastically, you should what you and beloved really wants from life, you need to communicate, communicate and communicate until you arrive to a very clear understanding about your expectations, It is your future.
Here are some questions to help you make decision.
- Will you have to "give up" of your domestic animals? Does your beloved love having cats, dogs, birds, etc. at home?
- Any of you already have children? How well will they accept living together, now as a new family? There are good schools for them in new place? They like new place? How about their friends, they accept being apart from them? Can they keep their current activities, like sport, etc. in new place?
- Are you moving far away from your family? If you are a kind of person that is very close to your family, it will be very hard not. to be with them so often. Maybe your parents are "old" and need your assistance. You have right to build your life, your happiness, your love, but I think it isn't fair to leave your parents alone most of time, when they most need your help. And if you already have children, can they live far away from their actual family? They are willing to have a new family?
- If you are divorced and your ex lives near to you, will he accept your new mate? After all he comes from "nowhere", and almost from one day to another, he is already living with you.Of course you can't let your ex be main reason for you to live your life, where you want, and with who you want, but if your ex is a kind of person that don't accept that you have a new mate, you need to be prepared to deal with that.
Dating tips that work- which of the three types of women should you be dating?Written by John Alanis
When most "dating gurus" and sex therapists spout their dating tips, they often complicate whole process with unusable theory and psychobabble.
I’m going to bypass that, make it brain-dead simple for you, and most importantly, reveal a few dating tips you can apply in real world. In these dating tips, I'm going to share with you little-known concept of "three types of women.”
There's a wonderful book you should read called "Winning Through Intimidation" by Robert Ringer. You can get it on Amazon for a few bucks (get original version published in 1970's, not new "touchy feely" one.) Many people are turned off by title, thinking it's about "scaring" people into giving you what you want. That's not what it's about, though. It's actually about protecting yourself from intimidation. It's also a fun read, full of hilarious stories and even a few cartoons (of turtles wearing sunglasses). But it's a book each and everyone looking for dating tips needs to read, because part I'm about to share with you absolutely applies to interacting successfully and effortlessly with sexy women.
In book, Ringer talks about three types of people in business world- and in my experience he's 100% correct. Here they are. Type #1- this is guy who is out to get all your "chips" and lets you know about it. This guy is "straightforward" about his intentions, what some would call honest. Type #2 this is guy who assures you he is not out to get your "chips", and in fact, tells you he wants you to get everything that is coming to you. Then he attempts to grab all your "chips" anyways. Type #2's are most treacherous type. Type#3: this is guy who assures you he is not out to get your chips, and sincerely means it, but by his bumbling, stumbling or just pure incompetence he winds up trying to take them anyways (even though he doesn't mean to). How do “three types” translate into a usable dating tip?
And, how does all of this relate to success with attracting sexy women? Well, it's been my experience that women fall into, roughly, these three types as well. Type #1: she's straightforward with you about her intentions… whether she's into "fun friends," or looking for a husband, she is forthright with you up front. She knows herself and what makes her happy. Type #2: this is woman who appears to be straightforward with you about what she wants… but for whatever reason, she's out to get your money, deliberately break your heart, or she's just pissed at all men -what a female friend of mine called a "cruel woman." Like above type #2, operative word here is "treacherous." Type #3: this is woman who truly believes herself when she tells you what she's looking for, but for whatever reason, bad things seem to happen around her… she "self sabotages" whenever things are going good, and winds up wreaking great emotional havoc on men in her lives, even though she doesn't mean to. The result is still same as dealing with a Type #2, though, and that’s why it’s vitally important you pay close attention to above dating tips.