Who Do They Think They're Kidding!Written by Jeannine Schenewerk
I recall sitting in a movie theater in 2003, to catch ‘Something's Gotta Give', film starring Jack Nicholson and Dianne Keaton. I’m not a fan of most of today’s romantic comedies, but I am a Nicholson fan, so I took a chance. I won’t give a film review here; rather, I’d like to share something I experienced in theater.At beginning of movie, we are presented with Nicholson’s character. He’s a sixty-something playboy, involved with a much younger woman, played by Amanda Peet. Very soon, we are treated to impending prospect of these two characters ‘getting it on’. Seated a row or two in front of me was a group of young women, all in their mid to late twenties. As implications of aforementioned scene began to get through to audience, I, and a number of other patrons, overheard one of young women exclaim, ‘Oh God! She’s gonna do Grandpa!’, at which point, there was a ripple of laughter throughout our seating section. I must admit, I found exclamation not only amusing, but as well, rather ‘telling’, like end of old children’s tale, ‘The Emperor’s New Clothes’. You know, one where a little child, in his completely honest observation, points out what his elders all know, but refuse to acknowledge, due to old ‘herd’ mentality. In tale, it’s fact that Emperor is not wearing a suit of clothes to die for, no, he is buck-naked! In movie, it’s fact that viewers are to believe that this young woman finds this over-sixty man, sexually attractive, and highly desirable. There have recently been, and probably will continue to be, these age-gap romantic pairings, in films. One element will always remain same, with these pairings. It will ever be movies with older male, paired with younger, sometimes MUCH younger, female, which film industry will continually grind out, expecting viewing public to swallow this scenario as believable. Which makes me wonder from what planet do these filmmakers hale? Honestly, when was last time you noticed a young woman eyeing some average sixty year old man, (and key phrase here is, ‘average’ sixty year old man, not some man coated with sheen of wealth, power and celebrity, as desire-incentives) with total lust gleaming in her dewy eyes? Did you see this at local mall, beach, some concert, or sporting event? I can honestly state, I’ve never seen it. In addition, I can honestly state, when I was a dewy eyed girl in my twenties, men older than thirty were just, well, ‘old’.
| | Common menopausal symptoms include hot flashes, night sweats and changes in menstruation, but there are many others.Written by Lynn Donn
Common menopausal symptoms include hot flashes, night sweats and changes in menstruation, but there are many others.The first thing to note about menopausal symptoms is that there is a surprisingly long list of them, and that no list is really comprehensive, because every woman experiences menopausal symptoms in an individual way. Hot flashes, night sweats, mood swings, a decline in libido and changes in menstrual cycle are very common menopausal symptoms, but there are many others. Some very fortunate women experience these symptoms only mildly, or not at all, while for others menopause phase can prove a very challenging stage in life. If you are experiencing hot flashes, night sweats, depression, mood swings or changes in your menstrual cycle, and you’re a woman between ages of about forty and sixty five, it’s likely that these symptoms are signaling onset of menopause, but see your doctor for an individual, professional diagnosis. Your doctor is also best person to talk to about what you can expect in years to come, and treatment options which are available to you should you need them.
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