Whistle while you work

Written by John Watson


Mark Twain (1835-1910) believed that having fun is important if you want to be successful. "The secret of success is making your vocation your vacation."

Mark Twain must have had fun as a writer. His sense of fun emerges in his stories. He clearly enjoyed his work as a writer. No wonder he lived to a good age for those days. He learned as a boy how to turn work into a vacation. I owerepparttar following story about him to Alan Elliott and Josh Hinds. Inrepparttar 122924 1830's Mark Twain disobeyed his mother by taking a dip in a swimming hole near his hometown in Missouri. His mother punished him by telling him to whitewashrepparttar 122925 thirty- foot-long fence. Sam Clemens (Mark Twain before he chose a pen name) began to paint slowly. He was thinking of an excuse to get out ofrepparttar 122926 work. He had only just begun when his friend John showed up:

"I guess you can't go with me, 'cause you gotta work," said John.

"You call this work?" replied Sam. "A boy doesn't get to whitewash every day." Sam continued painting, pretending he was enjoying this drudgery. John watched for a minute, then said, "Let me have a go ." Sam told him thatrepparttar 122927 job was skilled. John offered Samrepparttar 122928 core of his apple and Sam accepted pretending he was doing John a big favour. All afternoon he conned boy after boy to pay forrepparttar 122929 privilege of whitewashing a portion ofrepparttar 122930 fence. Whenrepparttar 122931 task was finished, Sam had collected several objects which delightrepparttar 122932 hearts of small boys.

Years later, Sam Clemens told this story again in his great book "The Adventures of Tom Sawyer."

The story symbolizesrepparttar 122933 inventiveness ofrepparttar 122934 American spirit in makingrepparttar 122935 best of a situation and in treating work as play. Work can be unpleasant or fun, depending onrepparttar 122936 way you look at it orrepparttar 122937 spirit in which it is performed.

Adam Hollioake,repparttar 122938 English cricketer, realised when his brother died unexpectedly thatrepparttar 122939 most important things in life are 'being kind and having fun.'

Anyone who can be kind and have fun for much of their life is a success by this standard.

Joan Rivers is a New York comedienne who has spent 50 years inrepparttar 122940 entertainment business and is still going strong.

She has been a huge success and is still a success at 71.Joan Rivers has not always been kind torepparttar 122941 victims of her jokes but she has had enormous fun and created fun for millions right up to her current age. Not all comics have found their work fun. Quite a number have suffered from depression and more than their fair share of unfunny thoughts but Joan seems to enjoy her work. However, even she once considered suicide. She was not speaking to her daughter and was out of work. She took out a gun and was ready to kill herself when her little dog crawled into her lap and she thought "Someone needs me". I heard Joan recently onrepparttar 122942 Parkinson show on Oct 9th 2004 before starting her tour ofrepparttar 122943 UK (ten cities in ten days). The interview was riveting.

Michael Parkinson introduced her asrepparttar 122944 Queen of comedy. "She has done for plastic surgeons what Mickey mouse has done for Walt Disney."

She told Michael that all her bookings had sold out except in Birmingham. "No one has bought a ticket in Birmingham." She pretended to spit. She hasrepparttar 122945 gift of turning any problem into a laugh. I expect that, afterrepparttar 122946 interview, Birmingham will soon be booked out.

Michael referred, somewhat unwisely, to her age and to plastic surgery. She replied at once: "I know I'm old but I don't see me so screw me. The only two good things about old age are: You lose your hearing so you can't hearrepparttar 122947 doctor say:"You're going to die" and you can get intorepparttar 122948 cinema at half price.

Joan went on to 'defend' plastic surgery. The only bad thing about plastic surgery is that I've spent so much money on it that I figured out it would have been cheaper to have my dna changed."

Michael asked: " Do you approve of men having plastic surgery?" "Anything to get you through life; anything to get you through life. Life is tough and as you get older it gets tougher " "You're 71 now aren't you?" "I don't think we need to get into that. They brought up my cake and It took me a year to blow out my candles. I was 72 by then. When you get old you have no breath left. You lose your breath. At 40 you begin to lose your eyesight. At 50repparttar 122949 mind starts to go. At 60 you start to fart; it is just terrible. And you don't lose your sense of smell until 70. You are so alone."

Is work still necessary?

Written by John Watson


I have a confession to make - several confessions in fact.

I have at times been stupid enough to believe that work is not necessary to make money or achieve success.

A few years ago I joined a network marketing company that promised to create a down line of buying customers for me without any work on my part. I would of course have to pay a monthly fee myself. I was happy to do this.

However, after more than a year, no down line had appeared andrepparttar company was not doing well. Nothing had happened as promised even though they seemed to be lovely people who meant well.

Reluctantly I ended my membership. I was not alone in losing allrepparttar 122923 money I had spent on this enterprise. I also paid for health products which ended up being poured downrepparttar 122924 plug hole.

Inrepparttar 122925 last 5 years I have wasted at least £30,000 ($ 50,000) on companies that promised they could easily double any money invested in them. One ofrepparttar 122926 companies turned out to be fraudulent.

I could have found this out if I had done enough work to check them out. They were already listed as suspicious byrepparttar 122927 financial authorities.

Later I found out that over 800 people inrepparttar 122928 UK had been conned inrepparttar 122929 same way as me. I was not alone in my laziness and gullibility.

I also lent £2000 to a retired stockbroker in England who promptly lostrepparttar 122930 lot investing inrepparttar 122931 website malls of an internet entrepreneur based in Jerusalem. This man promised much but did not deliver.

The man who borrowedrepparttar 122932 money from me and several others felt no obligation to pay me back.

I did not pursuerepparttar 122933 matter because he was old and a heavy smoker. Again I should have donerepparttar 122934 work necessary to check outrepparttar 122935 Jerusalem entrepreneur. So shouldrepparttar 122936 stockbroker andrepparttar 122937 others who trustedrepparttar 122938 stockbroker's judgement

It is easier to trust people without doingrepparttar 122939 work necessary to find outrepparttar 122940 details. It is easier to listen to their big promises rather than readrepparttar 122941 small print.

How did I and they come to believe that we could make money without doing any work evenrepparttar 122942 tiny amount of work necessary to check outrepparttar 122943 people we were trusting with our money?

Many humans, including me, are naturally lazy. We prefer to trust people rather than find outrepparttar 122944 facts for ourselves.

Being lazy we like to believe that money can be made easily by takingrepparttar 122945 advice of experts. We don't realise that it takes work to find out whorepparttar 122946 experts are. We also need to realise that experts can be wrong especially when they are not personally involved.

How many expert doctors giverepparttar 122947 wrong diagnosis. A doctor once told me I was making a fuss when I complained aboutrepparttar 122948 pain in my foot.

I later discovered that I had gangrene in my foot. I nearly lost my leg and my life. He was an expert but he was notrepparttar 122949 one feelingrepparttar 122950 pain!

How many financial experts lose money for us. It is not their money which is at risk.

We might do much better by becoming an expert ourselves. This could well save us time and money inrepparttar 122951 long run. We arerepparttar 122952 ones who are really concerned about our interests.

It has been said that an hour's work a day for six months can make a person of average intelligence into an expert at most things. In other words regular work or study can make us experts or can, at least, make us competent.

Many people give up before they become competent because they cannot face being incompetent inrepparttar 122953 early parts of their studies. But if they continue to work and do not give up they will gradually become competent and eventually expert.

Sometimes, in our quest for expertise, it might be useful to travel to hear an expert face to face. Travelling is work unless you love trains and planes andrepparttar 122954 lazy person will not makerepparttar 122955 effort to travel.

I have, surprisingly, maderepparttar 122956 effort to travel to several seminars to hear motivational and entrepreneurial experts like Tony Robbins, Randy Gage, Stuart Goldsmith, Jonathan Mizel, Corey Rudl, Marlon Sanders and Dave O'Connor.

I also have travelled to learn from several great Martial artists like Grandmaster Kwang Jo Choi, Danny Inosanto and Gary Spiers.

But I have not donerepparttar 122957 follow up work necessary to makerepparttar 122958 most ofrepparttar 122959 entrepreneurial seminars.

Again, I am not alone in this. 95% of seminar attendees fail to follow up and apply what they learn at seminars. They think that attendance atrepparttar 122960 seminar is enough. It isn't.

I have boxes full of seminar materials that I have not even opened let alone read. Again I am not alone in this. About 95% of people dorepparttar 122961 same as me. One study has shown that only 14 out of a hundred people in a civilised Western country buy books and out of these 14 only 1 person reads beyondrepparttar 122962 first chapter!

Why is this? Why are people so reluctant to acceptrepparttar 122963 fact that work is necessary if you want to achieve success in anything.

•Work is not glamorous. Being talented and clever is glamorous. However, evenrepparttar 122964 talented have to work to makerepparttar 122965 most of their talent. But we don't see them at work behindrepparttar 122966 scenes. Rock stars eventually give up being stars even though they love appearing on stage. They just can't standrepparttar 122967 drudgery of constant travel. I playedrepparttar 122968 drums in a band once. The actual playing was great but carryingrepparttar 122969 drums around and setting them up was not.

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