While yardselling it came to meWritten by John Ashley
It seems like everyone knows what you mean when you mention term yardselling. Well, Webster doesn't agree. In fact many dictionaries leave out term altogether. These days term has evolved. It used to be that yardselling was a few moments or a day of driving around your town looking at other peoples stuff. Today we still look through peoples stuff, we just do it online. Isn’t that all Ebay and other online auction site are? Personally I really enjoy sifting through worlds of junk people are selling. During my time spent at Ebay I realized that common, everyday joe was being left out. While selling is easy online, it does come at a price. I found it impractical to sell my junk on Ebay after figuring in all of auction fees. Opening price, closing price, reserve fees, valuation fees, fees for bold letters, fee for images! I think they tried to charge me for tying my shoe at one point. After all fees and
| | Cross-Cultural Communication:Grin and Jump In!Written by Judith Richardson
Multiculturalism is a reality in North America and for those of us who do business globally. The US has more legal immigrants yearly than all other countries in world combined. Also there are vast cultural differences among "native" North Americans living in US and Canada for several generations, as you know if you've done business with a New Yorker (better be quick!) or with a Texan (better stand at a 90degree angle to your male companion). Culture is not ethnic or racial. It is learned and of course each culture is different. Treat everyone like a unique individual, as you would like to be treated, don't get hung up on stereotypes. Develop your emotional intelligence so you can be more intuitive about how to communicate with, negotiate with, and provide services and products for people from cultural backgrounds other than your own. I offer some tips below, and yet they are not universal in these cultures.1. I repeat, do not expect everyone in a culture to be same! 2. In South Texas, if you're talking to a male, they will often stand at a 90 degree angle to you. If you move to reorient, a "dance" will begin. This is a markedly non-intimate position, and often eyes are cast down to floor or out across floor. South Texans generally say "Pleased to know you," while Mid Westerners say, "Pleased to meet you" or "Pleased to make your acquaintance." In social settings in South Texas, it is not customary to shake hands with women. Other San Antonio cultural customs -- in San Antonio society, we have haute hug - two women will parody a hug, not touching any part of their bodies, and just patting one another lightly on back. As a sign of affection, when you shake hands, sometimes you cover other person's hand with your left hand and pat or squeeze with warm eye contact. This is particularly done with respected older people. 3. Be aware that most of world does not greet by shaking hands. 4. People from Asian cultures bow in greeting, but bows are different. People from Cambodia and Laos bow with both hands together in front of chest, as if praying. In Japan, depth of bow signifies level of respect for other party. Many Koreans prefer bowing and if they shake hands, right hand is supported at wrist by left hand to show respect. Thais bow with palms together about chest-high with their fingers outstretched. And, there are exceptions. The Taiwanese usually nod head in recognition rather than bow. 5. Some cultures naturally greet by hugging. Native Hawaiians hug each other, exchanging breaths. The custom is called "ha." Ancient Hawaiians, incidentally, actually bumped heads together. Mexicans use abrazo. Greeks and Italians often hug with or without shaking hands first. 6. Some cultures kiss! If your Cuban male client kisses you on cheek, you know you've made short list. Immigrant men from Middle East often shake hands with a slight nod or bow and then exchange kisses on both cheeks. Men from Middle East usually don't shake hands with women, nor do they introduce woman with them. Do not attempt to shake hands with a Middle Eastern woman unless -- and here's where EQ comes in -- she extends her hand to you. Men in Eastern Europe, Portugal, Spain and Italy will often kiss male friends on cheek.
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