When a Relationship Goes Bad

Written by Ken Katz


What do you do when a long term relationship goes bad? How do you pick uprepparttar pieces and get on with your life? It is very simple for someone to tell you that you should just forget aboutrepparttar 149460 person you once loved and find someone new.

You don't want to stop rehashing in your mindrepparttar 149461 how and whyrepparttar 149462 relationship went bad. What might you have done to fix it. What did you do wrong to ruinrepparttar 149463 relationship? Why couldn't you just change and make it better.

Guess what. It probably wasn't really your fault and it probably wasn't really your partners fault. It just happened. You just grew in different directions. Don't cry too much over it. Pick uprepparttar 149464 pieces and start fresh. It might even be a blessing in disguise. Because, your next relationship might berepparttar 149465 relationship to end all relationships. So, now hopefully you have something to look forward to.

People grow apart no matter how much they think they are compatible with each other. As time goes by your beliefís and interests change. If you are not in tune with your partner you both start to grow in different directions. As sad as it seems, this is really a healthy thing. If people stop growing and learning then they stop living. And, if you are not living then you are dead. And, that is definitely not a fun thing.

You can try to solve your differences. With discussion you might be able to convey what each of you are feeling and what your current needs are. If you and your partner thinkrepparttar 149466 relationship is worth saving, then maybe you each can make concessions and again findrepparttar 149467 common ground you both once had.

Ten Paths to Human Improvement

Written by Bill Dueease


People all overrepparttar world strive to improve themselves and their lives in countless ways. Have you stopped to look atrepparttar 149322 various methods or processes available to you to improve yourself and/or your life? Wouldn't it be helpful to understandrepparttar 149323 various human improvement processes and what they will provide you, before you embark on your own improvement journey? Each ofrepparttar 149324 following ten processes provides unique and different benefits. Frequently, several processes are used together to help people improve their lives.

The ten most widely used human improvement processes listed in alphabetical order are:

The coaching process The consulting process The education process The mentoring process The psychiatric process The self-help process The spiritual process The teaching process The therapy process The training process

Letís look briefly at each ofrepparttar 149325 ten human improvement processes to give you a better understanding of what you can accomplish and how they work.

Coaches focus 100% on you achieving your chosen future coaching goals. Life coaches are equal partners, not experts. Coaches assist you to improve and grow as a person asrepparttar 149326 means to achieving your goals. Life coaches assist you to becomerepparttar 149327 world's leading expert on you by providing different, very objective perspectives about you and encouraging you to takerepparttar 149328 actions necessary to achieve your goals. Life coaches concentrate on you actually implementing (executing) what you know to achieverepparttar 149329 goals you want.

Consultants are recognized experts in their fields, who either sell their expert advice or perform their expert actions (or both) to complete a task on your behalf. Consultants are hired to solve problems for you. These problems are always external to who you are. Consultants will rarely affect your personal improvement. Some examples of consultants are attorneys, doctors, auto mechanics, and accountants.

Educators focus on you learning certain information or concepts. They involve themselves in your learning process to be sure you grasprepparttar 149330 information or concept being conveyed. Generally, educators are experts in their fields, but not always. Educators will focus on you improving your knowledge, your understanding of concepts and your ability to learn.

Mentors focus on providing you sage advice and wisdom gathered through experience and knowledge when you ask for their insight. Mentors can be considered a library of human knowledge inrepparttar 149331 particular areas of life they have gained expertise. Mentors normally focus on providing knowledge, understanding and direction, but have been known to help in your improvement as a person when you allow yourself to becomerepparttar 149332 subject.

Psychiatrists focus on helping you to overcome mental and thinking imbalances. They are medical doctor experts who provide drugs and behavior change methods to adjust your mental activity back to as normal as possible. Psychiatrists focus exclusively on you improving as a person to get better control of your thinking and emotional activities.

People who userepparttar 149333 self-help process usually followrepparttar 149334 advice of self-help books, television shows, tapes, seminars, radio shows, and/or Internet sites. When usingrepparttar 149335 self-help process, you must providerepparttar 149336 guidance, energy, support, wisdom, and direction to learn and do what you feel is necessary to accomplish your goals. You may act as your own teacher and train yourself, or act as your own consultant and becomerepparttar 149337 expert to solve your own problems.

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