When You Attract Negative People, Be Thankful

Written by Catherine Franz


Laws of Attraction are clearly defined. What comes back is a reflection ofrepparttar energy you are radiating. If negative people are being attracted to you, then be self-assured that you are sending out energy that appeared on their radar screen.

Instead of focusing on not trying to attract them. Be thankful you are.

Okay, you say, that might be pushing it a little. Not really. You see, whatever you are attracting is giving you a clear projection ofrepparttar 129930 energy that you are giving off. Or it could be something that you need to heal first in order to clear your energy. Most times, we could not see how we are radiating without this attraction.

The answer is awareness. The key is seeing it quickly so that their negative energy doesn't change or shift your energy and pull you down along with it. However, it’s best not to leave until you have a sense of what is showing up. Yet, sometimes, that isn't possible until hindsight mode.

An excellent example of this occurred to me just this week. A quick background in case you don't know me -- I'm very careful of my energy and have practicedrepparttar 129931 laws. I am also a master practitioner and move withrepparttar 129932 laws 24/7 which took years to master. Something I'm very proud of and very aware of.

Well, anyway, moving forward torepparttar 129933 illustration.

Eating dinner at my favorite restaurant, sitting there writing after a good meal, just finished a marketing story for one of my syndicated columns. Before leaving I thought I would duck intorepparttar 129934 ladies room. I was sitting onrepparttar 129935 john -- oops, maybe too much information (TMI) -- when I heard this lady talking to me fromrepparttar 129936 other stall. Actually feeling awkward and caught unaware, it took a few minutes before I could really make out what she was saying. By then, I was walking towardsrepparttar 129937 sink to wash my hands. It wasn't until then did I getrepparttar 129938 gist of her story, language and negativity. It was a victim story about howrepparttar 129939 world is out to get her. Let me spare yourepparttar 129940 details. I know you've heard this before and can easily relate torepparttar 129941 energy heaviness created inrepparttar 129942 room.

I smiled and commented about I enjoy coming torepparttar 129943 restaurant. She was too much into her story to hear anything but herself. Yet, she wasn't even hearing herself, I believe. She followed me back to my table and stood over me as I sat down. A few more minutes of this and trying to ignore her and because I was ready to leave anyway, I got up to leave. She walked back to her table and sat. This time I walked to her table and towered over her.

I continued to listen, not getting a word in edge wise for another five minutes or so. I smiled and nodded sideways repeatedly in disagreement. She never paid attention. Finally, I held up my hand in a stop-sign format. This caused a pause. With a deep sigh of thank goodness, I remarked, "I've listened to your story and would like to share with you -- you are attracting exactly what you don't want because that is exactly what you want. Everything that has occurred has been what you have asked for. If you want to change what you are attracting, start by seeing and making new choices. This and only this will change what occurs in your life."

You will Regret this for the Rest of Your Life.

Written by graham and julie


You will regret this forrepparttar rest of your life said John to his son as he heard that he was not going to continue with his education and had decided to join a local firm of accountants. Douglas had always been fascinated by figures and how companies worked and having reviewedrepparttar 129927 university courses on offer in accountancy couldn’t seerepparttar 129928 benefit of going to university. John meanwhile had his heart set on his son going to university. For him it wasrepparttar 129929 start of your opportunities. He had had such a great time at university and wanted Douglas to haverepparttar 129930 same benefits. He just knew he would regret it forrepparttar 129931 rest of his life. Douglas just couldn’t seerepparttar 129932 problem. If he didn’t like accountancy orrepparttar 129933 firm he had chosen he could always go to university later. And if it happened that way at least he would have given his first love his best shot and be entering university with more experience, confidence and knowledge. Douglas just couldn’t understand why his father had this doom and gloom attitude. What was it that this usually affable, intelligent man just couldn’t accept. If it was a mistake it still wouldn’t berepparttar 129934 end ofrepparttar 129935 world. What is it that makes you frightened to make mistakes? Douglas had learned in his short experience at school and college thatrepparttar 129936 best teacher is, mistake. The experience sticks with you. It is a much more thorough way of learning than through books. The best learning in his life had been through his own experience andrepparttar 129937 experience of others. He didn’t understand what he would regret forrepparttar 129938 rest of his life. He had seen many of his parents friends and his friends parents stuck in jobs and thought processes because they were afraid to move on. Their natural reaction when faced with anything new and different, “You are making a big mistake. You will regret this forrepparttar 129939 rest of your life”. What is it that when you decide to make a fundamental change in your life others can’t resist trying to put you off. But not just put you off but try to frightenrepparttar 129940 living daylights out of you with, “you will regret this forrepparttar 129941 rest of your life”.

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