When It's Time To GoWritten by David Stoddard
There comes a time when we are presented with an opportunity for something better than what we have. A new job or promotion which will take us closer to what we have dreamed, or you get a letter in  mail saying you may already be a winner.You might even feel like chucking it all and joining flying Wallendas as you tour around world on your tightrope of fame, or maybe you'll just feel need to get off hamster wheel and find something new. It's all good. It is your life, and you have right and responsibility to yourself to do what you need to do, want to do, or just would like to do. Maybe you hate idea of leaving a job you like a lot but know there is something better you are moving towards. Perhaps you have just been there because you couldn't see yourself doing much else for one reason or another, until now. Or, like so many, you cannot wait to tell those so-and-sos what you really think of this place as you walk out door, head held high and never looking back. But as you think about it, there come these mixed feelings. Yes, it is time to move on with your life. But I have so much freedom in this position. Not sure at all what I am getting myself into moving forward. They never respected me nor what I brought to table, forget them. I was good at what I did. I hope they can handle things without me. Boy, will they be sorry I'm gone. It isn't always easy moving from one part of your life to another. If it was a place we liked most of time, we hope that those we leave behind will be able to handle things without us. On other hand, when we don't feel appreciated as we leave, we hope so strongly that place will just shut down by time door closes behind us. Truth of matter is, life goes on. The places we leave will be fine. Sure, they may scramble a bit to get reorganized, our former bosses may feel hurt that we would dare leave them, and we will definitely be blamed for anything that just isn't right for about a year or so later.
| | The Self Appreciation EnhancerWritten by Peter Murphy
Do you like receiving compliments? So do I! And when someone does pay you a compliment do you enjoy that wonderful glow that only comes with feeling appreciated and valued by another person?Very often when you are talking to people what you really want deep down is to feel significant, liked and important. Consequently you watch what you are saying and are careful not to say wrong thing. This in turn can mean that way you express yourself is stifled and constricted. What if there was a better way? What if you could feel better about yourself and at same time express yourself with greater freedom? What you need is Self Appreciation Enhancer! All you need to get started is a mirror, some memories and a few minutes. The Self Appreciation Enhancer: 1 Wear clothes that make you feel good about yourself 2 Stand in front of a full length mirror 3 Close your eyes and go back in time to an occasion when someone paid you a compliment. Recall what this person said and hear words in your ears. See what you were seeing at time and notice how you felt. Imagine that you are stepping back into that experience.
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