As you have shown an interest in starting a business of your own it would be safe to assume that you want to change your life. You want more money - more control over your life - more respect. But just as we each have a dream, we also have a reality.

Unfortunately for most people, reality bears no similarity whatsoever to dream. In many cases, dream exists as an escape from reality.

Think now of YOUR reality - life you lead every day. What do you do? How do you feel as you awake? Do you have any enthusiasm for your way of life? Do you enjoy your work, or are you on welfare? Then ask yourself important question: Do you resent having to live this way?

If you answer 'yes' to that question, then you are in danger of succumbing to most destructive human emotion - Hate.

If you hate life you live, people you deal with, actions you are forced to take, then you will find yourself rapidly rushing toward disaster. When you hate, you may as well be drunk! You no longer function in a creative manner. Your mind is geared toward destruction. Instead of aiming to create a new life for yourself and those you love, you will become obsessed with act of revenge.

The more that you hate people and situations around you, more your mind becomes poisoned with purpose of getting even. Logical thought becomes impossible and hate then becomes a substitute for action. You must learn NOW, to resist urge to hate. It achieves nothing constructive and it will destroy both you and your dreams of success. As Ghandi said..."An eye for an eye just makes whole world go blind."

Take a good look at your way of life. Do you always have to make do with what you have got, because you can't afford a replacement? Are you always having to put off paying bills until next week? Have you never enough money to enjoy yourself? Are you unhappy with area in which you live?