What to Do When Your Spouse or Your Friends are Negative?

Written by Michael Losier


© Michael Losier 2004. You may include this article in your ezine or on your website or distribute it to others, provided you includerepparttar copyright statement andrepparttar 110253 bio information tag line found atrepparttar 110254 end of this article. This year (2004), I've completed over 64 seminars. And one ofrepparttar 110255 most common questions asked is, "What do I do when my spouse, partner or friend is being negative?"

As you practice Law of Attraction in your life, you become more aware of what you are attracting and start to understand that you can control what you attract with deliberate use of Law of Attraction. The more deliberate you become in controlling what you want to attract,repparttar 110256 less and less tolerant you become of any situation that doesn't feel good---in particular, negative relationships in your life. But what do you do whenrepparttar 110257 person who is being negative is your partner, spouse or child? It's not likely you will just eliminate them from your life altogether. How can you deal with a situation that is contaminating your positive energy with negative energy?

First of all, I'd like you to remember that it takes two people to argue or fight and you always have a choice about what you choose to talk about. When you are with your mate, or friend or child and they are complaining about something they don't like or telling you how much their life isn't working in some respect, you always have two choices:

Will My Doubts and Fears Affect My Child?

Written by Rebecca Hanson


Will My Doubts and Fears Affect My Child? © Copyright 2004 Rebecca Hanson Please ask permission to reproduce this article. Rebecca@YouCanHaveItAll.com

"Will my doubts and fears affect my child?" This father is concerned about his son, a high school athlete with a vision of playing professional sports. The father's fear is that his son won't be accepted intorepparttar 'right' college to be scouted byrepparttar 110252 professionals. He wanted to know:

How does your vibration, as a parent, affect your children?

Can your negative or low frequency vibration create resistance or prevent your child from attracting his or her desire?

How much influence do you have over your child's ability to attract something they desire?

What would you tell this father?

My answer was simple: "Your vibration affects your child torepparttar 110253 degree that he allows it."

Now, you might think thatrepparttar 110254 olderrepparttar 110255 child,repparttar 110256 stronger his or her vibration will be--thatrepparttar 110257 parent's vibration would be less influential asrepparttar 110258 child matures. However, that is not necessarily so.

Another client told me about a camping trip that her family took last summer. Picture this: mother, father and 7 year old Janice are driving inrepparttar 110259 car, through a national forest, looking for a place to set up camp. Father is discouraged and making comments like, "We're not going to get a place to camp." Every time he said that, little Janice said, to herself, "We ARE going to get a camping spot." This went on for a couple of hours, asrepparttar 110260 family drove from one campsite torepparttar 110261 next looking for an opening. Finally, Janice spoke up, rather defiantly: "Yes we ARE going to get a camping place. I just know it!" And atrepparttar 110262 very next campsite, there was a vacant site right close torepparttar 110263 gate. My client said she was impressed with her daughter's ability to maintain her high vibration of expectancy, while a parent was vibrating such negativity.

I have three (almost four) grandchildren. One little fellow has displayed a true stubborn streak since he was a toddler. While his independence and self-determination are sometimes difficult to live with, I realize that he is exercising his right to not let other people set his vibration...oh, no! He has his mind made up and he's going to have his way--always! Could it be that he knows something that my generation is just learning? Maintain your own vibration!

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