What is success and how do we achieve it?

Written by John Watson


To be clear about what success is must berepparttar first step to achieving success.

So far,repparttar 122926 best definition I have come across is: "Success isrepparttar 122927 completion of anything intended".In other words success is finishing what you planned to do.

This shines a light on failure and success.Make a plan and follow it and you will have succeeded. Make a plan and do not follow it and you will have failed.

This gives a yard stick for judging every day of our lives. We can say atrepparttar 122928 end ofrepparttar 122929 day "I have failed" or "I have succeeded."

This may seem very obvious but it is amazing that only about 85% ofrepparttar 122930 human race end up doing what they intended.

I asked several people what they thought success was. One person said that "Success is making loads of money." Another said that success is "Achieving your goals". Some one else said that success is "Fulfilling your potential". An interesting answer was that success is "Making others jealous".

Brian Tracy agrees withrepparttar 122931 connection between success and goals. He has said "Success is goals, and all else is commentary." Tracy believes that people with clear, written goals, accomplish far more in a shorter period of time than people without them.

Stuart Goldsmith in "The Midas Method" has an important section on how to set goals so that they are achieved usingrepparttar 122932 full power ofrepparttar 122933 subconscious mind.

Maria Nemeth gives this definition of success: "Doing what you said you would do, with ease".

"Doing what you said you would do" is currently not achieved byrepparttar 122934 majority ofrepparttar 122935 human race especially politicians! Doing it with ease is achieved by even fewer and requires makingrepparttar 122936 most ofrepparttar 122937 subconscious mind.

Jim Rohn argues that success is just a few simple disciplines practised daily.

The power of daily discipline is HUGE. Becauserepparttar 122938 discipline is practised dailyrepparttar 122939 effect is cumulative. The good practice is carried out 365 times a year with, perhaps, a few lapses.

It cannot fail to have tremendous influence. Oncerepparttar 122940 discipline becomes a daily habit, it can be forgotten about untilrepparttar 122941 rewards start coming in.

The writer who writes every day has written well over 300 pages byrepparttar 122942 end ofrepparttar 122943 year. If he or she does not write every day they lose momentum and inspiration. If they keep uprepparttar 122944 writing (even just a few words a day) a magnet for relevant thoughts develops.

Recently a Liverpool student of American media studies applied for 600 jobs and received only one interview which he failed. He decided to write a novel. He determined to complete ten pages a day. He worked inrepparttar 122945 evenings at a dead end job to make money and then wrote until about 5 inrepparttar 122946 morning at his novel which has now become famous. It also looks like becoming a Hollywood blockbuster film.

He points out that if you write only one page a day for 100 days you can write a screen play. He wrote his novel by studyingrepparttar 122947 structure of two other novels and noticing how they were structured and wrote his screenplay after studying video of films and noticing how long each scene lasted before there was a change.

I can't remember his name orrepparttar 122948 name of his book as I just happened to hear part of his interview on television.

The practice of daily disciplines alone can change our lives totally. Another benefit of daily disciplines is that they quickly create habits and habits create character.

A great quote by Jim Ryun,repparttar 122949 American Athlete, is as follows

"Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going"

Another brilliant quote is:

"Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value." Albert Einstein

The next quote says more or lessrepparttar 122950 same thing:

"Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it." Henry David Thoreau

Many would argue that success is not about making money but about developing oneself into a person who is valuable to others.

However, this quite often will lead to making money because people will pay for value. Any one who is very good at their job can usually command whatever pay they wish.

Adam Hollioake is one ofrepparttar 122951 most successful English county cricket captains. He realised what is important in life when his brother Ben was killed in a car accident in Perth Australia. Adam learned that he should be kind to people and have fun and "that’s what life is about."

His view of success in cricket is not necessarily winning. He is not afraid to lose a cricket match. He is only concerned that his team put 100% effort intorepparttar 122952 game. He comments:

"If we do put that effort in we usually win anyway".

Success then is putting in 100% effort whateverrepparttar 122953 results. More often than not, however,repparttar 122954 results will be excellent.

Michael Angier has a great definition of success.

"Success isrepparttar 122955 result of steadily taking action on our most important goals. When we consistently focus our energies and our efforts upon what matters most, we can't help but be successful".

Angier also admires Ralph Waldo Emerson's comments on success:

"To laugh often and much; to winrepparttar 122956 respect of intelligent people andrepparttar 122957 affection of children; to earnrepparttar 122958 appreciation of honest critics and endurerepparttar 122959 betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to findrepparttar 122960 best in others; to leaverepparttar 122961 world a bit better, whether by healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived; this is to have succeeded."

What arerepparttar 122962 causes of failure and success?

William James,repparttar 122963 great American psychologist, puts failure down to lack of faith in one self

"There is but one cause of human failure. And that is man's lack of faith in his true self."

Faith in one self is a huge part of success. Stuart Goldsmith in "The Midas Method" talks about two kinds of belief that are necessary for success. You must believe that you deserve to succeed and you must believe that you haverepparttar 122964 ability to succeed.

Another big cause of success is discipline.

"The ability to discipline yourself to delay gratification inrepparttar 122965 short term in order to enjoy greater rewards inrepparttar 122966 long term isrepparttar 122967 indispensable prerequisite for success." Brian Tracy

Another cause isrepparttar 122968 willingness to try to succeed even ifrepparttar 122969 possiblity of success is remote.

"Far away inrepparttar 122970 sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and seerepparttar 122971 beauty, believe in them and try to follow where they lead."

Louisa May Alcott (1832-1888) American Writer

My computer guru, Danny believes that you should hold on to your dream in all circumstances and never let go. Grab hold of your vision with an iron fist and even if you are down on your luck and inrepparttar 122972 gutter never give up.

Danny himself has held on to a dream for 22 years. His dream is to developrepparttar 122973 best languages translator inrepparttar 122974 world.

Motivation by comparison

Written by John Watson


Motivation by comparison is a dynamic form of motivation which can totally transform our attitude of mind.

It is used much too rarely. It is so powerful it could and perhaps should be used every day as a part of a morning ritual of preparation forrepparttar day ahead.

Every day we should thank God orrepparttar 122925 Universe that we are not blind or disabled in some other way (unless of course we are blind). We should be motivated by comparing our lot with that ofrepparttar 122926 blind, sick and disabled.

Most of us think about this occasionally. I am suggesting in this article that we should systematically think about this every single day of our lives especially early inrepparttar 122927 morning

When we feel sorry for ourselves because we are faced with some problem or other, let's just think for a few moments about how we would deal withrepparttar 122928 problem if we were blind.

I have some official and confusing documents to sort out tomorrow. I am not looking forward to this but if I were blind, it would take me twice as long to get up for a start. I would also haverepparttar 122929 thought of another day without sight weighing me down and making me feel tired beforerepparttar 122930 day gets going.

I would then (unless I had special technology) have to ask someone to readrepparttar 122931 documents over to me and would then have to ask someone to writerepparttar 122932 reply for me when I had thought overrepparttar 122933 problems.

This might involve paying someone to do this or waiting for a friend or relative to haverepparttar 122934 time to help me. It might take several hours if not days to sort outrepparttar 122935 problem. Without having to do all this,repparttar 122936 problem could be sorted out within an hour or two atrepparttar 122937 most.

If I were paralysed, I would also need to rely on help and would also have to fight allrepparttar 122938 problems of poor health that immobility encourages.

I should find myself motivated byrepparttar 122939 comparisons above. Life is so much easier for me that I should be thoroughly ashamed of any self pity or lack of motivation.

I watched a tribute onrepparttar 122940 BBC1 Program 'Breakfast with Frost' this morning (Sunday October 17th 2004) to Christopher Reeve who died last week

Sir David Frost started by saying that Christopher Reeve had been a guest on his show several times. He had always been inspirational.

David Frost continued: "The Superman in film became a real life superman when he refused to let his paralysis deter him in his fight to promote stem cell research "

In fact, Christopher Reeve, since his fall from his horse in 1995, had promotedrepparttar 122941 cause of spinal cord injury research with determination and energy. He had brought hope to many spinal injury victims including himself.

Frost decided to end this morning's program with a tribute to Christopher Reeve by showing Christopher's answer to a key question.

David Frost asked him how he faced up to hopelessness and bleakness.Christopher's reply has many great lessons to teach us:

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