Others are much too "young" at thirty. A good approach is to find out average age when people actually do marry. In most developed countries, age of most men today at time of first marriage is about twenty-four. Their brides are slightly over twenty-one.

Contrary to popular opinion, people of today are not older, but younger at time of marriage than they were fifty years ago. Having considered briefly average ages at which people do marry, let us now consider good age to marry.

First, you must get yourself recognized. I suggest placing a personal ad on an adult lifestyle site. Placing an ad in newspapers or magazines could possibly get you unwanted replied from unwanted people who may not even be lifestyle minded. Also, once your ad is there it's there and becomes outdated. I strongly suggest a lifestyle site.

How you place your ad and it's contents is extremely important.

Stating that you have an unusually huge private part that hangs to your knees and that you work it like a jack hammer is not what impresses serious swinging couples.

Prospective partners want to know about you. Your hobbies and what you like to do for fun outside of bedroom.

Always be honest in your ad. Never state that you are single if in fact you are married and swinging without your spouse.

A couple may be willing to look past fact that you are swinging without your spouse,

But, once they realize that you have lied to them, they will lose all interest in you.

Trust and honesty are very important!

Most swinger clubs allow single men only one night a week if they are allowed at all.