What Does It Really Mean When You "Pass or Fail" A Relationship Quiz?

Written by Brian Fong


Q. It seems that no matter what magazine I am reading there is always some new relationship quiz being published. Aren't these a bunch of baloney?

A. Well, even baloney has a purpose if you're looking for a quick sandwich. The honest answer is that it depends uponrepparttar quiz.

A relationship quiz that is written by a certified relationship professional, such as a licensed marriage counsellor or a psychologist, has a better chance of providing insight to a relationship than does one that is written by a magazine writer who was told to fill 1200 words of white space with a relationship quiz.

Of course, like anything else, garbage in, garbage out. What I mean is that no matter how structured or professional a relationship quiz is,repparttar 128502 answers can be skewed by answeringrepparttar 128503 questions dishonestly. So, if you're one of those people who want to "read their partner's mind" by having them take a relationship quiz,repparttar 128504 chances are thatrepparttar 128505 savvy partner is going to answer with whatever THEY think YOU wantrepparttar 128506 answer to be.

A relationship quiz works best when you take it by yourself and you answer every question honestly. It's imperative that you keep in mind that these quizzes, and their corresponding "correct" answers, are written for a generic audience andrepparttar 128507 results may not be typical of your personal circumstances.

Accepting New Ideas

Written by Tony McGlinn


Much ofrepparttar time when a new idea comes to us, we handle that idea and move on, without ever becoming consciously aware ofrepparttar 128500 process. Duringrepparttar 128501 times when we are consciously aware ofrepparttar 128502 process of handling a new idea, we often reject that idea without understanding why we rejected it, or sometimes without even understanding that we did reject it.

How can this be?

To understand this, let's briefly review a few ofrepparttar 128503 mechanics of how our minds work. When a new idea comes to us, it comes into our conscious mind. It can be as a result of our own thinking, or it can be from an outside source. Immediately, and sometimes beforerepparttar 128504 new idea is even properly formed, our subconscious mind starts to evaluate that idea.

Now this evaluation is happening in our subconscious mind. That means that we are not consciously aware of it, but it is happening anyway.

So how does our subconscious mind evaluate an idea, sometimes beforerepparttar 128505 idea is complete, and without us being aware that this is going on. To understand this we need to understand a characteristics of our subconscious mind.

Our subconscious mind has no ability to reason. If that is so, how can it evaluate a new idea. Well one way is to ask itself, does this new idea fit with what I already "know". If it does, thenrepparttar 128506 new idea will not be immediately rejected. If it doesn't thenrepparttar 128507 subconscious mind will send a message torepparttar 128508 conscious mind to say that this new idea doesn't fit. Usually at this point,repparttar 128509 conscious mind will believe whatrepparttar 128510 subconscious mind is saying to it, and rejectrepparttar 128511 idea.

There are a number of problems with this. What ifrepparttar 128512 information thatrepparttar 128513 subconscious mind is evaluatingrepparttar 128514 new idea against, is wrong?

A common example of this is when a new idea comes into our conscious mind, and our subconscious mind starts to evaluate it. The subconscious mind says, "I already know that". Now that "I know that" message is sent torepparttar 128515 conscious mind, and what happens then?

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