If 90s British pop sensation 'the Spice Girls' ever get remembered for anything, I hope it's for bringing question 'now tell me what you want, what you really, really want?' to mass consciousness
Now you may laugh at this, but when you really, really think about it, is there a more important question you could ask yourself?
What is a want?
A want is a desire. Whether or not we get what we want is often based upon strength of our desires.
I know many will probably argue with this statement, but in some strange way, there is a part of me that truly believes that we all get what we want. If you really had a burning desire to change your reality, you would do it, right? Well, I'd like to think so.
Now if you're convinced that it's time you actually started wanting more, then allow me to share three simple but powerful secrets.
1. Know what you want.
If ever there was a personal development concept that was worth grasping it's this one: know what you want. If you don't know what you want, do you really believe that you have any chance whatsoever of getting it?
The sad reality of life is fact that majority of people in this world don't know what they want. Even sadder is fact that this is way most people prefer it.
If you aren't actively pursuing your own wants and desires, chances are that you will become a statistic of un-fulfilment. Always remember that your employer, government, financial institutions, family and peer groups will all be trying to shape your life according to their wants, not yours.
2. Ask for what you want.
Once you are clear about what it is you want, you've got to ask for it!
Can you imagine sitting in a restaurant, reading menu, making your selection, but not telling waiter? What are your chances of getting a meal? Pretty slim!