What Divorce Parenting Practices is Best Appropriate for Preschoolers?

Written by Ruben Francia


How do you spare your preschoolers forrepparttar negative effects of divorce? How do you promote your preschooler's healthy growth and development? The answer is appropriate divorce parenting practices.

The next question is what appropriate divorce parenting practices for preschooler really means? Let's keep things simple. All you need to know is learn how divorce affect your children. Knowing how preschoolers react to divorce will bring you to a better position of knowingrepparttar 110615 best appropriate divorce parenting practices you can give for your child.

So let's get started. How is preschoolers affected by divorce? Preschoolers commonly experience regression during parents' divorce. Children whose parents are in conflict regress to thumb-sucking, bed-wetting and other behaviors their parents assume they've outgrown.

Children at this developmental stage may think they are responsible for their parents' divorce or for their parents not living together. As a corollary torepparttar 110616 perception that their misbehavior causedrepparttar 110617 divorce or caused a separation, preschool children often believe that if they are really good, everything will be okay again. This can be an incredibly stressful perception for a little kid, because he or she begins to carry on his or her shouldersrepparttar 110618 burden of getting mom and dad back together again.

Preschoolers may be confused, have fantasizes about reconciliation, and show difficulties in expressing their feelings. Their sense of security is affected by predictable and consistent routines.

Preschoolers may fear being left alone or abandoned altogether and may worry aboutrepparttar 110619 changes in their daily lives. They may deny that anything has changed, or they may become uncooperative, depressed, or angry. Although they wantrepparttar 110620 security of being near an adult, they may act disobedient and aggressive.

Preschoolers exhibit signs of sadness and grieving because ofrepparttar 110621 absence of one parent. Preschoolers may be aggressive and angry towardrepparttar 110622 parent they blame.

Now that you know how preschoolers react to divorce, I'm sure a lot of ideas come to your mind on what divorce parenting practices is best appropriate for preschoolers. To add up to your list of ideas, here below are some ofrepparttar 110623 things you should do to help your preschoolers adjust to divorce.

· Repeatedly tell children that they are not responsible forrepparttar 110624 divorce. Children need to be reassured thatrepparttar 110625 breakup wasn't their fault.

· Discourage reconciliation fantasies. Avoid dinners, outings, or holiday celebrations with your ex-spouse; they only fuel your child's fantasies. Instead, emphasizerepparttar 110626 finality of divorce

· Keep daily routines intact. Children feel more secure when there is a standard routine. Stick with bedtimes, no matter at which homerepparttar 110627 children are. Have some consistent chores. Have some time committed torepparttar 110628 child, which is treated as sacred.

· Reassure children that everything will be ok, just different. Children are invariably frightened and confused by divorce. It's a threat to their security. Provide extra hugs and kisses and tell your child that you and other adults will always be near to love and protect

Dressing right for winter fun.

Written by Joanna Gerber, www.winter-vacations-ontario.com


Dressing right forrepparttar winter wether is essential if you want to enjoy your outdoor activities. Winter clothing manufacturers make sure that your day onrepparttar 110614 slopes is warm, dry and comfortable.

You downhill escapades will require a different attire, thenrepparttar 110615 stroll inrepparttar 110616 snow covered park. The dressing decisions should be based onrepparttar 110617 weather,repparttar 110618 planed activity andrepparttar 110619 length of time you plan to stay outside.

Dressing right forrepparttar 110620 Weather First thing you need to do before you get ready, is to checkrepparttar 110621 weather forecast. Do not just assume that since it is nice and sunny, it will stay that way. Or that it is nice where you are going, even if it is just a short distance away. Remember, Canadian winters are quite unpredictable, andrepparttar 110622 weather conditions change often without warning.

You know what weather to expect. Now you need to look at your planed activity. If your outing will includerepparttar 110623 vigorous downhill skiing onrepparttar 110624 double diamond trails, you will probably be much warmer then someone sitting inrepparttar 110625 horse drawn sleigh.

Dressing your Children right forrepparttar 110626 Weather The clothing types and styles you choose for your children, will, of course be different fromrepparttar 110627 once you buy for yourself. The reasons are quite simple.

Children, no matter what age they are, have a tendency to get quite wet when playing outside inrepparttar 110628 snow. There is so much to do. The sledding, sliding, snow ball fights, igloo building, snow castle building, andrepparttar 110629 snow angels inrepparttar 110630 fresh, white, powdery stuff. Of course they get wet! What did you expect?

Here come clothing manufacturers torepparttar 110631 rescue! Researchers and developers come up with new fabrics, new insulations. They are making them warmer, greatly breathable and even waterproof. Kids can stay outside and play inrepparttar 110632 snow longer, they come home dry and warm. Make sure that your kids wear gloves made with water repealing, breathable fabric. Avoidrepparttar 110633 ones made with rubber lining, when kids play inrepparttar 110634 snow,repparttar 110635 moisture gets inside and stays there, having no way to escape. Even if you put them inrepparttar 110636 dryer, most likely they will stay wet inside, they will just smell different... and believe me, you don’t want that. Other important piece of kids winter attire is a hat. It is well known that body loses most of it’s heat throughrepparttar 110637 head That’s why newborn babies get those tiny, little hats to protect them form getting cold.

You can protect your babies, big and smallrepparttar 110638 same way. The hat you choose, should berepparttar 110639 right size. If it is too small it will cause excessive sweating, which in a way, if persistent, may cause damage torepparttar 110640 hair follicle. Sorepparttar 110641 hat should be loose enough to allow good air circulation, and made of breathable fabric that protects form wind. Another piece of important clothing forrepparttar 110642 active enthusiast ofrepparttar 110643 winter sports is some form of neck and chest area protection. The selection of scarves, neck-warmers and hat-scarf combination is so great and versatile, there is no reason not to have them and use them.

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