We have choices in life. We can look for lesson and beauty in every single thing that happens to us. Or we can go through life kicking and screaming about everything that has, is, could, or will happen to us. Life is meant to be a journey, something we learn from and grow from. It is meant to be a journey of self discovery and joy, but you have to choose.
Two sisters growing up in same house. Their mother is an excellent seamstress and sews for many people in town. She also make all of clothes her two daughters wear which gives her great pride in dressing them in latest fashions at a fraction of cost. The mother loves seeing her daughters in her creations. Sewing for her daughters is an act of love for mother.
One sister loves fact that her mother sews her such beautiful clothes. She calls then her “designer” clothes. She feels love and care that goes into each new garment. She feels so special putting on new dresses and showing her friends.
The other sister hates fact that her mother sews her clothes. She feels others will think they can’t afford store bought clothes. She hates being even slightly different than her friends even though it means she has nicer clothes. She is embarrassed and feels that if her mother really cared she would buy her clothes from store.
Two sisters living under same roof, experiencing exact same circumstances in different ways. One has chosen to make one meaning out of it and other, a totally different meaning.
We have choices too. How will we see things in our lives, our businesses, relationships, our abundance or lack of it. What are we willing to do to see positive side of coin. More to point, what are we willing to do to change how we see things?
Scientist have been studying vibrational frequencies of negative and positive emotions. There are instruments that can measure these frequencies. When we hold a negative though for more than 17 seconds our energy vibration goes down, and when we hold a positive thought for more than 17 seconds vibration is at a higher frequency. Ever been around someone who was depressed and seeing negative? We all have. They can literally drain our energy if we hang out with them. On other hand, a positive person, can lift our spirits just being in room with them. Is it any wonder that positive people attract good things and people into their lives? And negative people seem to attract every negative thing to them. Every time you talk to them they have another poor me story. It’s their choice and yours too. What will you choose to make out of your life.
“It is never to late to become person you were meant to be”
Sheri Bardo / Life Coach www.authenticallyu.com
You Must Become That Which You Want To Attract In Your Life."
Have you ever wished that people would be kinder to each other? That people would be more honest with each other? That people did what they said they were going to do? That relationships were deeper. That there really was such a thing as unconditional love? That people would see you for who you really are?