TIME: Late February DILEMMA: The BlahsThis is just time of year to take a look at that reoccurring problem – how do you keep passion alive? Because it’s February, you may be thinking of “romance” when I say “passion.” But I mean it in a larger sense. I’m talking about energy that drives our lives.
This is time of year when life may look like getting up, shaving, doing laundry, feeding dogs, and having same fights with same people over same things. It can be uninviting and uninspiring, a case of “been there, done that, and not too thrilled about prospect of going there and doing it again.”
Whatever zap of energy we got from New Year and New Year’s Resolutions has likely worn off. If we’ve dropped our resolutions, there’s a letdown. If we’ve achieved them, there can also be a letdown. I think of woman who told me once, “I lost 30 lbs. and still my life isn’t perfect.”
It isn’t about life being perfect, it’s about life BEING. Let’s take a look at that. What woman meant was that losing 30 lbs. made her look and feel better, and did a lot for her health, but baby still cried, secretary still missed deadline, traffic still piled up, she still didn’t like her mother-in-law, dishwasher still needed to be emptied, and she still was unable to streamline her projects at work she way she’d like to.
So how do we recharge our batteries when they’re running low? Here are some tips.
WORK OUT
Putting out energy brings in energy, and important thing is that this isn’t just physical. Work out MENTALLY by starting a new course, online or on-site. Continual learning throughout life is one of hallmarks of resilient people. Get in on this early and stay with it.
Work out EMOTIONALLY by taking focus off yourself, and helping someone else. If you’ve got blahs and start focusing on that, you can dig yourself into a hole. If you turn outward, toward others, you’ll soon become interested in world about you and that’s it’s own antidote.
Work out PHYSICALLY by adding to or “upping” your current workout schedule. Many people add pleasant walks this time of year, just to get outside more, to move about more, and to get more sunshine. If you don’t want to go outside, get movement going inside.