Ways Father's can Invest in Their Children

Written by Darrin F. Coe, MA


One ofrepparttar primary negative impacts on children isrepparttar 111085 lack of a consistent, nurturing father or father-figure. One ofrepparttar 111086 primary predictors of future violent behavior in boys is how much neglect they perceive from their father. It’s not enough for “dad” to go to work, come home, readrepparttar 111087 paper, watch ESPN and then go to bed. That’s being a roommate not a dad. Children need to perceive active investment from fathers. We’ve defined a good dad asrepparttar 111088 man who works consistently, brings homerepparttar 111089 paycheck, and doesn’t openly abuse his children and family. I think it’s time to expect more out of fathers. Here’s some suggestions. 1) Mentor Humility: Fathers can have a powerful impact on their children if they are willing to actively mentor humility. Showing children it’s ok to admit when they are wrong and placing others before one’s self are powerful investments. 2) Invest Time: Set aside time for your children on a regular, frequent basis. This time is forrepparttar 111090 kids. It allows them to bond with dad and each other in a familial, empowering way. This develops family coherence, problem solving development, and can be used to develop ethics and values.

How to be a Momma Cat

Written by LeAnn R. Ralph


How to be a Momma Cat by LeAnn R. Ralph

© 2004 LeAnn R. Ralph

Overrepparttar years, I have raised nine orphaned kittens. Four of them were two weeks old when their mother was killed; three others were only hours old when their mother died; two more kittens fell out ofrepparttar 111084 nest in our barn when they were only a day old.

Raising motherless kittens is not a difficult process, but it does require patience, time and plenty of TLC.

Here are some tips to help you raise your orphaned kittens:

1. Make a nest.

Normally, a mother cat spends many hours a day inrepparttar 111085 nest with her kittens, which helps her babies stay warm. Keepingrepparttar 111086 kittens warm is important because if they're not warm enough, they won't want to eat, and in fact, all of their bodily functions will slow down.

To keep your orphaned kittens warm, make a nest in a small box and line it with towels or old t-shirts or sweatshirts to helprepparttar 111087 babies conserve their body heat. Put a towel overrepparttar 111088 box to keep outrepparttar 111089 light. Female cats choose nests that are dark. If you don't have a heat lamp, use a small 40-watt desk lamp and place it several feet aboverepparttar 111090 box to help keeprepparttar 111091 kittens warm.

Ifrepparttar 111092 box is big enough, you can also use a jug or another large container filled with hot water to keeprepparttar 111093 babies warm. Placerepparttar 111094 jug inrepparttar 111095 box and then make a nest with towels beside it. Refillrepparttar 111096 jug when it cools off. You can use a quart jar as a "hot water bottle" too except that a quart jar cools off very quickly.

2. Use an eyedropper or a syringe to feedrepparttar 111097 kittens.

The first time I raised orphaned kittens, I discovered thatrepparttar 111098 small nursing bottles available at vet clinics were too big. The kittens couldn't get their mouths aroundrepparttar 111099 nipples. So, at first, for newborn kittens, I used an eyedropper. Asrepparttar 111100 kittens grew bigger, a syringe worked very well,repparttar 111101 kind of syringe for giving injections (withoutrepparttar 111102 needle of course!). I started out withrepparttar 111103 3 cc size and used larger syringes whenrepparttar 111104 kittens grew bigger. The tip of a syringe is aboutrepparttar 111105 size of a cat's nipple, and my kittens eventually sucked hard enough onrepparttar 111106 end ofrepparttar 111107 syringe to drawrepparttar 111108 plunger down by themselves.

A word of caution: Whether you're feeding with an eyedropper or a syringe, be careful to give only a few drops at a time. My veterinarian told me that ifrepparttar 111109 kittens were given too much formula at once (more than they could swallow), they might inhale it. Inhaling formula will make your kittens much more susceptible to pneumonia.

Alongrepparttar 111110 way, I have also discovered that it is best to feedrepparttar 111111 kittens as much as they want to eat. They will settle down and sleep untilrepparttar 111112 next feeding if they are getting enough to eat. Tiny kittens will start out taking maybe 1 CC at a time. As they grow bigger, they will eat around 12 CCs at a time (usually in several different helpings).

Kittens learn very quickly that food comes fromrepparttar 111113 syringe you hold in your hand. If you are having trouble getting them to takerepparttar 111114 formula fromrepparttar 111115 syringe, let them "root around" inrepparttar 111116 palm of your hand for a few seconds or let them suck on your fingers. Then introducerepparttar 111117 syringe and let them suck on it while you very slowly pressrepparttar 111118 plunger down.

3. Feedrepparttar 111119 kittens KMR or kitty formula that you have mixed yourself.

KMR,repparttar 111120 canned cat milk replacer, is available at most vet clinics in either a premixed or dry form. It is specifically formulated for kittens to provide allrepparttar 111121 nutrients they need. Followrepparttar 111122 directions onrepparttar 111123 label. The amount to feed is determined by body weight. My newborn kittens weighed three ounces each,and forrepparttar 111124 first several days, they only needed a half an eyedropper of KMR at a time.

My vet clinic also gave me a recipe for "kitten formula." Afterrepparttar 111125 first can of KMR, this is what all of my kittens have been raised on.

Here isrepparttar 111126 recipe for Kitten Formula

1 cup whole milk 1 tablespoon white corn syrup 1 egg yolk a pinch of salt

Mix in a blender and mix it up far enough in advance sorepparttar 111127 bubbles will have time to dissipate.

Warm over medium heat. Heatrepparttar 111128 formula so it feels slightly warm torepparttar 111129 touch. All of my kittens have refused to swallowrepparttar 111130 formula if it was too cold or too warm. The same was true for KMR.

4. Feed your kittens on a regular schedule three times a day.

Mother cats nurse their kittens every couple of hours. The veterinarian I consulted cautioned me not to feed them that often. "They won't eat well and you'll get frustrated and they'll get frustrated and it will be harder on everybody," he said. He was right. Feedingrepparttar 111131 kittens three times per day worked out very well.

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