Matthew 12:36 says “But I tell you that men will have to give account on day judgment for every careless word they have spoken.” I don't know about you, but I think it's time to get our mouths in order.

According to Proverbs 18:21, death and life are in power of tongue. Deuteronomy 30:19 makes it even clearer by saying “This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live.”

When God created world, Genesis 1:3 says “And God said, "Let there be light," and there was light.” He gave you that same power to speak things into existence. You might be thinking "how is that possible?"

Mark 11:23 states "I tell you truth, if anyone says to this mountain, `Go, throw yourself into sea,' and does not doubt in his heart but believes that what he says will happen, it will be done for him.” According to this verse, you can have what you say--negative or positive. Throughout Bible, especially in Proverbs, God speaks about our mouths.

James 3:3-10 shows us that our tongues are like a bit in a horse's mouth. With that bit in place, you can control animal, turn it any way you want it to go. Or like a ship that can be steered by a small rudder. Our tongues are little, but they can contaminate our whole bodies and lives of others around us.

We are only creatures created by God that can choose what we say. Although a parrot can talk, he can't choose words that come out of his mouth. He only repeats what he hears. Verse 9 notes “With tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God's likeness.” and Verse 10--”Out of same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be.”

In church or around godly friends, we praise God and talk about what Bible says. When we arrive home, when we are in a jam--lost our car keys, , had an argument or our teenage daughter announces she's pregnant, we complain, gossip and, believe it or not, we even curse people and ourselves with our words. Have you ever called a person "stupid," said you wished they were dead or that you were never born? Those are all word curses.

The message I am sending today is world wide, and I would like for all to know what you as a parent can do to make raising your kids a pleasant and memorable journey for you and our future to be world leaders. The information contained in this article will work for all, single parent as well as married couples.

When one conceives a baby in today's world it is sent off after six to eight weeks to some daycare center to be raised by daycare centers "workers". I know many of us wish we didn't have to do that, but if we have no choice who am I to condemn that. Just in case your wondering, your not alone in world.

You are about to learn what it takes to make smiles out of most degrading moments in your life. My "MOM old Queen", as I always called her used to say and I quote: "Son no matter how hard it gets, even when you want to toss them in fire. please remember that they didn't ask to come into this world you brought them here".

With those words I am going to shed light onto many years of sorrow and bring smiles.

Let's start out with sibblings that are just babies, do you recall how cuddly and cute they were. Well, do you know that those big old lumps of problems that your faced with daily is and will always be that same cute and cudly baby, but in a full grown outfit. My Mama always said enjoy your kids and talk with them when they are young, because they grow up much faster than we think. If you can always just set your focus in your mind to that cute and cudly moment, it will always make you smile and you will be a lot easier on your kids.

Let's take when our babies start to progress and first sounds echoe throug home. Next will be baby steps and then will be moments of truth, terible two and three year olds. Well just remeber that they are building their futuristic leaders capabilities.