Watch a man with high status--Brad Pitt, George Clooney, or
CEO where you work--and you’ll notice that they move differently than
rest of us. They give off vibes that they are hot stuff, and because of that, women get soaking wet over them.You, too, can create that aura that makes you attractive to women.
Have you ever noticed
way your friends look when they're all nerrvous? They’re looking down at
ground with their arms crossed, fidgeting, with their voices cracking and their eyes bugged out.
And when you give off that kind of body language yourself, women don't want to be around you.
Now, think about successful guys. They’ve got girls all over them and some great body language going on.
So, what's
number one secret between those high status guys and
low status guys? You've probably guessed it...
alpha males are relaxed and in control when it comes to social situations.
Make no mistake about it... relaxation is
most important mental state for you to be in.
With that in mind, here are some pointers for you to develop
mindset and body language of an alpha male (and by
way, if you think they're easy, you're right... you can make these changes as early as tonight and have even
hottest girls clamoring for your attention):
1. Don’t allow yourself to feel worried. Just let your worries go, since you can’t solve any problem by worrying. So suck it up, and quit thinking about what might go wrong. Just live life.
Now, I know what I just said is easier said than done (to use an old—but relevant in this case—cliché). You've spent your whole life up until now dwelling on thoughts that make you feel worried.
But what is this emotion we call "worry"? When you think about it, it's simply
fear of what might happen in
future. Essentially you're punishing yourself by feeling upset before anything bad has happened. It makes no logical sense to worry!