Once again, in my research I came across a wonderful tape package of Wayne Dyer's latest book. It's called

'There is a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem'

What a wonderful piece of work! Truly inspirational.

Wayne Dyer is known as 'Father of Motivation' by his legion of fans and there's no doubt that this is another excellent example of how he gained his reputation.

A question was asked of me, other day.

'What do you do when there is an 'irritating' relationship present in your life? We just seem to rub each other up wrong way - ALL time, what do I do?'

We sat down and talked about situation and after listening to Dr Dyer's words, decided on a plan of action.

We decided that she would wait for a day when a nasty snipe escaped from this person and apply principles we'd decided on.

Instead of usual cutting remark in reply, she sat quietly for a moment and tried to imagine what kind of a day other person had had. She knew he was tired and upset, so decided to reply with a soothing remark.

She remained calm and asked if he’d had a bad day at office. Silence followed (he'd expected a fight - as usual).

He sat still for a moment tryig to decide if this was a trick, but When he saw look on her face, he knew her concern was genuine. She said then most amazing thing happened.

All through your Life you plod along, going with flow, and then one day it suddenly doesn't seem 'enough' any more.

The catalyst can be anything from a "Final Notice' bill to a near fatal car accident.

It is that sudden 'snapping' feeling, that seems to lift a veil from your eyes. You begin to see potential around you.

You begin to wonder how come others can have life they have and you keep on struggling along, barely making ends even see each other, never mind meeting bit.

I heard something other day that gave me a kick in pants.

This person said that envy is a profound 'brick to head - sign'. A sign that you need to do something, NOW.

When you envy someone you need to stop and remove self-pity prop.

They have what they have, because they've worked hard enough to deserve what they have. You can have whatever it is you desire, if you are willing to do work that is required.

So key is to take responsibility for your experience of Life.

Stop sitting there feeling sorry for yourself and get up and do what is required, otherwise you'll be wallowing until you do.

Taking responsibility for your experience of Life will empower you to truly live life you are meant to.

No more 'pity talk'. Stop and analyze everything that happens to you, every moment of day.