Trust in Marriage

Written by Jenny Clair

A couple should trust each other in many ways. When they meet new people they are expected to be trusted not to wonder from a marriage. Not to have an affair or become involved with anyone else. Trust in marriage is also needed when keeping finances under control. A couple should trust one another to respect each other for example when couples have a joint bank account it is on trust that you both userepparttar account responsibly and trust that it will not be abused by either of you.

A ‘trust marriage’ means to be reliable, honest, confident, consistent and dependant upon one another. Once you have earnt someone’s trust life becomes much easier. There is no worry of jealousy between couples. Wherever you go you know you are being trusted to dorepparttar 146030 right thing and you have a wealth of respect for each other. There is nothing worse than when couples do not trust each other in marriage. A ‘trust marriage’ should be loyal, amicable and have no confrontations.

Life is too short to become burdened with problems. If a couple pull together at all times then this is what makes a strong ‘trust marriage‘. You should want to help each other as much as you can and be there for each other as often as you can. When two people love each other and trust each other then life is more relaxed betweenrepparttar 146031 two of you and there us not tension inrepparttar 146032 atmosphere. When two people pull together they can achieve a life time of trust in their marriage. There are no boundaries set, no limits to keep within, no secrets withheld and no misunderstandings between each other. In fact, a ‘trust marriage’ should run in complete harmony.

A trust marriage from when you

Zenobia' Life Lessons

Written by C.V. Harris

I was a young girl aged 12, whenrepparttar one person whom I adored and admired was removed from my life. During that time, I was emotionally scarred and abandoned. I didn’t know it then, butrepparttar 145978 outline for my life’s future was being created during those moments that surrounded her death.

Zenobia was a phenomenal woman, raising two girls in an amazing manner. She wasrepparttar 145979 only person that loved my sister and I torepparttar 145980 BONE!! She loved us unconditionally. U-N-C-O-N-D-I-T-I-O-N-A-L-L-Y! A somewhat lengthy word, carrying a penetrating weight. I learned just how much weight that word carried years later when I had my own children. I ended up making all of those sacrifices that Zenobia made, loving my seeds torepparttar 145981 bone, as I was subconsciously taught to do while growing up on Chicago’s south side.

Life is supposed to berepparttar 145982 best teacher. Funny, howrepparttar 145983 lessons that are learned from life aren’t readily understood until years later, isn’t it? Long afterrepparttar 145984 teacher has stopped teaching, or has since passed on. We somehow allow our mental selves to rest in a retrospect mode. The switch torepparttar 145985 light miraculously turns itself on. This is when we mentally go back torepparttar 145986 time whenrepparttar 145987 mentor was telling us “not” to do this or “to do” that. We never paid attention to what was being said atrepparttar 145988 time, never understood, or so we thought. But our subconscious self did. We didn’t want to listen did we? Wanted to defyrepparttar 145989 teacher. Didn’t want to obeyrepparttar 145990 given command. The answer is all too clear now ……isn’t it? Crystalline to sayrepparttar 145991 least.

Unbeknownst to me during her lengthy battle with cancer, her inevitable demise would somehow create a pathway for me to become aware of my inner self and my environment. So aware to this day, as I sit and put pen to paper, I am continually conscious of my progressions and regressions on a daily or monthly or even a yearly basis. I am aware if I am ambitious enough to “get that job” or being responsible enough to set a concrete example for my children to follow, or makingrepparttar 145992 right decision at all times whenrepparttar 145993 future of our children are concerned. Oftentimes, we are given no second chances.

As ironic as it was, during my times of emotional depravation, when I felt my body could no longer persevere, when I toyed withrepparttar 145994 idea of suicide versus life, when I literally had no one around me that cared if I lived or died, or when my children and I had to succumb to living in a shelter because my job downsized and I had no family around me to offer housing. During those times, I allowed myself to take that mental journey back in order to regain my strength and move onward. Back torepparttar 145995 day, torepparttar 145996 moment, when Zenobia was teaching a particular lesson to me.

By recapturing these lessons, whateverrepparttar 145997 lesson may have been that I needed atrepparttar 145998 time, I gainedrepparttar 145999 will,repparttar 146000 courage,repparttar 146001 strength to continue my life journey. The Life Lessons of Zenobia have been sustaining for me yesterday, today and will continue forrepparttar 146002 tomorrows that I have left.

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