Triggering Female Lust Written by Mike Pilinski
Contrary to what you see every week on 'Sex and City', women are complete opposite of men in that, more *anonymous* sexual encounter, LESS gratifying they find it to be.
Unlike fictional uber-slut Miranda, satisfying sex does not begin and end with quest to find someone new to have an orgasm with. For vast majority of women, MORE connected they feel to their partner, more overwhelming total sexual experience is for them.
Just reverse of typical male thinking, right? Men are intensely turned on by thought of having sex with a woman for that very FIRST time, or by scoring a one-night stand with a perfect stranger, or perhaps fantasizing about being in a porno movie and having wanton sex with dozens of hot women he hardly knows. The common link between all these scenarios is that there is NO emotional bonding involved. Hell, there's hardly even an exchange of names! For man, more anonymous sex more *exciting* idea of conquest.
How two genders make use of (and even exploit) this knowledge of each other's romantic weakness, however, is an entirely DIFFERENT story. Women know exactly how to turn men on by manipulating this hardwired 'quirk' in their character that absolves them of need to actually know anything about a woman who has triggered his desire to mate. How? Simply by pushing this uniquely male "anonymous sex" button long and often... by acting sexy AND remaining emotionally aloof at same time. The stripper, table dancer, whore. The molten hot stranger. Any persona will do -- and all are quite useful when their design is seduction!
Men, on other hand, seem mostly clueless about how to turn tables and pull off same trick. In fact, prevailing feeling is that female lust is such a mysterious and unfathomable 'holy grail' so rarely encountered in real life that it's taken on a kind of mythical quality. I guess some women just have it for certain men... and not for others, and there's no understanding reasons why.
But can female lust be triggered by deliberate actions of a man? I say absolutely yes. Women get sexually turned on just as men do of course, but -- owing to differences in reproductive biology -- by a completely different set of mental processes. Men go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility. But females aren't interested in a man's age so much because males remain virile well into later part of their lifespan.
Divining with Ordinary Playing CardsWritten by Sam Stevens
You don't necessarily need an expensive Tarot deck to divine future from cards. You can use a regular deck of playing cards. All you have to remember is that four suits equate to following Hearts represent love or equate to Cups in regular deck Diamonds represent money or Coins or Disks Spades represent hardship or Swords Clubs represent opportunity or Wands Perhaps simplest layout is a three-card spread that represents past, present and future. Or you can choose one card from deck and meditate on its meaning for day. I have found that an ordinary deck of cards is also easily adapted to Celtic Cross, as well as Horoscope Spread (which involves laying twelve cards out in a circle with each card representing what is going on in each house). Below is a quick guide to meaning of cards. Hearts (Cups) Ace: triumph in love, perfection, union, happiness King: Honesty and affection. A generous, temperamental, and passionate man. Usually fair haired or fair complexion - card can also mean unreliability or a bad decision. Queen: A loving and attractive woman, fidelity, devotion, usually a fair-haired woman. Can mean vanity or delusion. Jack: A good friend or close friend. Can mean a reunion of separated lovers. Usually a fair-haired young person. 10: good luck, satisfaction, balance, peace, happiness in family or home. 9: good news, relief, desires of inquirer will come true, 8: an approach, invitation or proposal (traditionally to a party or celebration.) 7: a severe disappointment, broken promises, cancelled promises 6: sudden windfall, good fortune, generosity (can also mean unwelcome guests) 5: indecision, insecurity, jealousy, and obsession 4: postponement of a date or important matter, can also signify a delayed or canceled marriage 3: a warning to be sensible, watch for deception, bad decisions 2: friendship, a positive connection, a loving trusting relationship Spades (Swords) Ace: bad news, a separation or split, conflicts, a doomed love affair, endings, death. Can mean an ambition but thoughtless man. Usually dark haired. Queen: betrayal, gossip, sabotage, malice, treachery. Can mean a widow or divorcee. Usually signifies a dark haired woman Jack: obstacles, laziness, and hindrances. A lazy, but indolent, young man. Self-destructive. Usually dark haired 10: emotional anguish, cruelty, worry, grief, and a turn psychologically for worse 9: delays, quarrels, opposition, conflict, bad luck, 8: secret enemies, disappointments.also a rival pretending to be a friend 7: loss of friendship, loss of trust, and a battle not worth fighting 6: gradual improvement, ambition, discipline and efficient carrying out of plans