Train Your Man Written by David Wood
Train Your Man For ladies I work on premise that your man is willing to give you everything you want; that he wants to make you happy, if only he is shown how. If this is a stretch for you, I suggest your belief is main thing standing between you and a wonderful relationship. When a man does not meet your expectation, you may tend to contract or withdraw. Resentment can creep in and your man pays in end - either subtly or directly. A cycle can form where you may "cut him down" more often than you "build him up". My coaching and articles will centre around helping you to: 1) See you actually can have everything you want from your relationship 2) Get clear on exactly what you want 3) Show your man how to give you what you want, in such a way that you both win! These steps often require a shift in thinking, and giving up some behavioural habits. You will need to take responsibility for your relationship - often an uncomfortable place to stand. The result is a positive cycle where he enjoys giving you what you want - wins from it - rather than acting out of obligation or fear. This leaves you radiantly happy, which in turn makes an ENORMOUS difference to his life. Ask yourself – if life was a fairytale, and I really could have a perfect relationship, what would that look like? What THREE things could I have more of in this relationship that make me incredibly happy? For guys: (Note: I won’t normally write directly for guys, but in case your wondering about my philosophy here…..) I work on premise that if you are not happy in your relationship, it is because your girlfriend or wife is not happy, and therefore does not want you to be happy. You know how when she's lit up you have a great day, but when she's not you pay? Sadly, impact of her mood on your life is widely underestimated.
| | Do You Have What It Takes?Written by David Wood
Do You Have What It Takes? Body of Article Every one has something to offer. A target market of people who are one step behind or one step ahead of you, is always around. But new coaches ask me - do I have what it takes to build a successful business? Here are 7 assets which are definitely an advantage in pursuing coaching as a career: 1. Experience Are you 15, or 40? Have you truly lived? Have you failed and learned? Or triumphed over adversity? 2. Training Have you been specifically trained in coaching, or a related field? 3. Confidence This grows as you coach, and realise there is no right or wrong. But some people have a knowing that everything will work out way it's supposed to. 4. People Network Knowing 50 people is better than knowing 10 when you want to get clients. 5. Existing Client Base If you have an existing base, as do financial planners, fitness trainers, therapists, trainers, and consultants...building your practice will happen faster. 6. Commitment Is this just something to pass time for you, or are you truly committed to making a difference on this planet? 7. Having a Mentor Coach Beginning a coaching practice on your own is a much longer, slower route.
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