Top Questions Series - How to deepen your sexual experience?

Written by Elisha Goldstein

Top Questions of our Time Series: Sex

Slam bam thank you Ma’am or Mr.? That’s some people’s method and it works for those who mutually agree they want a quick fix. But for most people this is notrepparttar method of choice. So, why is it that this is so prevalent? The reason for this could be that American culture is simply not accepting of sexuality in general and that is why sexuality leeks into what many consider to be ‘shadow’ areas, such as pornography, strip clubs, and prostitution. Carl Jung, one ofrepparttar 141886 founding fathers of psychology, would definitely label sexuality asrepparttar 141887 shadow side of our culture. For most people who watch or visit these areas, it’s not something they discuss with their acquaintances or even their family and friends. In fact,repparttar 141888 actual act of having sex with a person is not discussed too openly in our culture. Alfred Kinsey was one ofrepparttar 141889 first and most famous people to openly discuss this cultural issue in public. Sure, sex is flashed in our faces on TV shows, movies, and advertisements, but few people actually openly discussrepparttar 141890 act of having sex with another person.

For whatever reason that is, this is an article that is going to discuss one ofrepparttar 141891 top questions of our time: What is a great way to have sex, even for those who are inhibited. I am going to explain a term, I am certain I am notrepparttar 141892 first to use it, or explain concepts like it, however, I have not seenrepparttar 141893 term before. That term is Mindful Sex. Mindful sex involves slightly slowing down in every aspect ofrepparttar 141894 act of sex, from creatingrepparttar 141895 setting, torepparttar 141896 foreplay, torepparttar 141897 actual act of sex, whatever you consider that to be. The following isrepparttar 141898 gist of it:


This part is not necessary ifrepparttar 141899 act of sex is spontaneous in any given moment. If it is not spontaneous, sometimes it is a good idea to setrepparttar 141900 setting. When creatingrepparttar 141901 setting, whether you are lighting candles, putting on music, or preparing special lingerie, moving slightly slower than you usually would. As you move slower begin to pay attention to your senses. If you are lighting candles, notice what you are lighting it with, is it a match, a lighter? Notice whatrepparttar 141902 flame looks like, how it moves, doesrepparttar 141903 candle have a smell, if so, take a moment to inhale it. If you are setting up special lingerie, take a moment to feelrepparttar 141904 lingerie. Is it made of silk? How doesrepparttar 141905 silk feel? Are you spraying perfume/cologne on it? Take an extra moment to inhale that. You getrepparttar 141906 idea, with anything you are doing, move slightly slower and take a moment to pay attention to what you are seeing, hearing, smelling, feeling, and tasting. You do not need to think about any of this, just notice your sensations. If you notice you are thinking about something, notice that and then simply bring your attention back to what you are sensing. By moving slightly slower you haverepparttar 141907 opportunity to do this and in return makerepparttar 141908 process more meaningful and enjoyable.

Foreplay and Sex:

Some people consider foreplay to be sex, some consider intercourse to be sex. So I am putting them together because these ideas apply to both of them. There are many aspects to foreplay and sex and different people will have different variations on what they like. The tragedy of it all is that most people, having not felt free to discuss sex in public and they have only relied on whatrepparttar 141909 media has influenced them to think about how sex should be. While they’ve had sex, they have never freely explored it on their own. Some people like to start out with oils and massage, some people like to start out with kissing all overrepparttar 141910 body, while others are into more fetish areas such as acting out a fantasy of being ruled over by a dominant figure of some kind (e.g., dominatrix). As far as fetish goes, this goes as far as our imagination can take us.

Fat Dogs - How To Get Overweight Dogs to Diet and Slim Down Without Whining

Written by LittleDog

Obesity in dogs is a growing problem, which can cause many problems including heart disease, joint problems, and diabetes. Almost half of dogs in America are fat, especially beagles, dachshunds, basset hounds, and Labrador retrievers. Before your dog reachesrepparttar point where they need insulin shots, you can slim them down. It will take almost a year, but it’s worth it.

Even puppies shouldn’t be overweight – all dogs need to be slim, not fat, to be healthy. A dog is atrepparttar 141875 right weight if you can feelrepparttar 141876 ribs without excess fat covering. Fromrepparttar 141877 side,repparttar 141878 dog’s belly should be tucked up, and from above, there should be a noticeable waist in front ofrepparttar 141879 hips. When you feel his ribs, they should be shallow indents which you can count, although you shouldn’t be able to count them just by looking.

A major cause of overweight dogs is feeding them table scraps. While it is fun to feed your dog leftover food, there are serious consequences. One is, of course, thatrepparttar 141880 dog will become unsure of who isrepparttar 141881 alpha inrepparttar 141882 family. The alpha isrepparttar 141883 one who eats first, and ifrepparttar 141884 dog is being fed before or duringrepparttar 141885 meal,repparttar 141886 hierarchy ofrepparttar 141887 family becomes unclear. Also, table scraps may not providerepparttar 141888 right nutrition for a dog. For example, many dogs fed table scraps can get vitamin A toxicity, and excess protein and phosphorus. If a dog is fed exclusively table scraps, they usually won’t get enough calcium and can get over-activity ofrepparttar 141889 parathyroid glands.

To reducerepparttar 141890 weight of fat dogs, one option is to just keep torepparttar 141891 same feeding schedule, but feedrepparttar 141892 dog less, starting by feedingrepparttar 141893 dog only ¾ as much as you do now. This option, however, can produce a dog that whines a lot, so many owners can add bulky vegetables torepparttar 141894 food. You can also get special low-calorie foods, which are high in bulk sorepparttar 141895 dog feels better fed. Dogs don’t usually like low-calorie foods, but they will eventually eat it and get used to it.

Another option, which can keeprepparttar 141896 whining down, is to changerepparttar 141897 feeding schedule to twice a day instead of once a day. Never leave food out all day long. Treats need to stop being given, but instead of a treat, overweight dogs can be fed one ofrepparttar 141898 two small meals. If you really want to give your dog a treat, use a carrot or an apple.

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