As a business turnaround entrepreneur for
past 20 years, I have had a lot of conversations with people about what really makes a business work - - oh, yes, that over worked word - successful.Communication...
For every communication there is a sender and a receiver.
For every communication there is a message.
For every message there is a meaning.
The message received is not necessarily
message sent.
What really adds complexity to our communication process is that
message may not carry
same "meaning" for
receiver as it does for
sender.
Your task as a communicator is to validate that
message received is identical to
message sent. Hold it, you're not done yet...
What about
"meaning" contained in your message? You're right... validate that it's identical for both
sender and receiver of
message.
Well, thanks a bunch Bob! You gave me
problem without a solution.
You're right - I did... but there is a reason for it. I want you to think about what I have shared with you.
It sounds simple... it looks simple... Well, if it's so simple then why do so many people and businesses have such a hard time doing it?
In a single word - - AWARENESS.
We aren't aware of its importance to us. We tend to say what ever hits our tongue and make
"assumption" that everyone else knows what we mean. The fact is that I don't know what you think I know, and you don't know what I think you know. Worse yet, we don't know, what we don't know... too bad we can't admit it.