Tips for Dating Success, Online and OffWritten by Stephanie Schwab
Dating, online or off, can be scary and frustrating. Follow these ten simple tips to help get you in right groove – and off to a great start!1. Be Confident Confidence, confidence, confidence! Nothing is more attractive than a person who is confident in their own skin. Once you are happy in your own skin and self-fulfilled, you will attract matches you deserve, not just ones you settle for. So relax and be your genuine self. 2. Be Interesting Read newspaper and know what’s going on in world. Current events are great conversation starters. Interesting conversation will attract others to start talking to you. 3. Increase Your Chances Don’t limit yourself by dating and approaching one type of person. Don’t pass on someone until you get to know them. Love happens at most unexpected times with most unexpected people! 4. Use Great Props Never leave your home without a prop -dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a fabulous scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite passion, interesting ties, hats, or an interesting book or newspaper. Props can break ice and help in starting up a conversation.
| | 59-60 and Waiting to Die?Written by Nancy R. Fenn
What is Saturn Return? I'm nation's Saturn Return expert and I'm here to help you understand this all important period in your life. This is one of my missions in life. There is little in our culture that prepares us for magnitude of Saturn Return and it consequences, not just immediately but for years to come. Sad but true, if first Saturn Return is not handled consciously, second one can be fatal! But read on ... there's an exciting alternative.You see, Saturn Return isn't just for people between 28-30 years old. It is just as important when you have your SECOND Saturn Return. This occurs when you're between 58-60. I'm just as interested in reaching second Saturn Return people as I am those in their late twenties. As nation's Saturn Return expert, I want you to anticipate amazing changes that can come between 58-60 that usher in a fruitful and meaningful new stage of life. And I really mean this. It isn't about "golden years" of advertisements. It's about something genuinely pure gold ... something akin to metal alchemists were looking for. There is nothing in our culture that prepares us for this!! Many people between 58 and 60 are shoring themselves up with a stockpile of supplies, waiting to die. They surround themselves with provisions, people and other "evidence" of security for "old age". They turn life over to their kids -- ask them what's new and they tell you what their adult children are doing!! This is not living. This is waiting to die. Life is for living. What about YOUR life? There will be new things on other side of your second Return if you catch wave. You see, second Saturn Return is intended to welcome in perhaps most exciting cycle of all, a new cycle, waning cycle. This is a cycle not of sitting around waiting to die but of GIVING BACK. I personally believe that mentoring becomes #1 most significant and health affirming activity at this time in life. My father mentored many people during his life. He was very successful in his career and a born teacher. He genuinely loved his work and he loved people. But there was one young man in particular he mentored intensely when he was in his late 50s and I remember thinking, "Why this is one of most meaningful relationships my father has ever had!" It was very inspiring for me to do same and to look forward to that time in my life. I always have an apprentice and as I get older it becomes a rich experience. After all, our own kids don't want to listen to us anymore!!
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