Tips For Becoming Fluent In The Non-Verbal Language Of Dating

Written by Toni Coleman


We are all too familiar withrepparttar term "body language". There have been books, workshops and endless discussions spawned by it. But do you really KNOW how to interpretrepparttar 101788 non-verbal messages that other people broadcast on a continual basis in their interactions with you? There are two levels of communication that occur in any interaction:

content process

Content refers to what we SAY. Process refers to EVERYTHING ELSE that occurs.

Interactions can be wrought with mixed signals- saying one thing and non-verbally communicating another.

No wonder so many singles report confusion regarding what their date was really thinking or feeling. Onrepparttar 101789 surface, understanding this language can seem very difficult, if not impossible. Not so, if you learn to speakrepparttar 101790 non-verbal language of process.

The following tips will be presented using examples of naturally (and commonly) reported dating scenarios experienced by singles.

1. Good eye contact/ poor eye contact When you are sitting and talking with your date, do you notice how they look at you, when you or they are speaking? When their eye contact is good, this is a sign that they feel comfortable and interested in you. They are really involved inrepparttar 101791 interaction and want to be there. It also communicates honesty and sincerity. Conversely, when your date has difficulty making eye contact, this communicates discomfort; lack of interest or it could be extreme shyness. The last would be easy to know if they are a shy person in general.

2. Restlessness Have you ever experiencedrepparttar 101792 restless date? You knowrepparttar 101793 one. He moves around in his chair, she looks at her watch, and his mind seems somewhere else. He may or may not offer an explanation. What appears to be going on is that her mind IS somewhere else. This behavior communicates a lack of interest or a preoccupation with someone or somewhere else.

3. Looking around at others a lot and not at you Have you ever hadrepparttar 101794 unpleasant experience of being out with someone who watchesrepparttar 101795 crowdrepparttar 101796 whole time? Perhaps, they just glance furtively (and frequently) aroundrepparttar 101797 room? This, of course, signals lack of interest, possible discomfort and a desire to avoid interaction with you. It can also be a general sign of someone who is not trustworthy, or atrepparttar 101798 very least, hasn't been completely honest/ candid with you.

4. Is noticeably quiet Oh, how deafening is silence. It can speak volumes. If your date has little to say to you what does this mean? Maybe they are just not very interested in you. Perhaps they don't think you would care to hear what they have to say. Maybe they think you wouldn't appreciate hearing what they are really thinking. Perhaps they are in an off or sour mood. Only you can interpret this. Be careful not to quickly write it off to something you want it to be, as opposed to what it really is.

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