A Leader is not a certain type of person or position of power. It is not
one at
top of
golf leader board at any specific time or
person at
top of an organisation. It is YOU. In this article we want to show you how to reveal
leader within. To give you some ideas, methods, tips that will make you think and, if you want to, enable you to reveal
leader within you.First; What is a Leader? Ponder this question for a while.
What is a leader to you?
What image does
word leader conjure up for you?
Is it someone with charisma? Perhaps it is someone who is able to get others to do what they want? Or someone who is able to get individuals to do
impossible? Is someone born a leader or are they made? What about world leaders. Are they bred, made by their political parties or carbon copies of their idols?
It is difficult, isn’t it, to define a leader. But we all know one when we see one or are in
company of one. We would like to suggest that a leader is YOU. You have inside you
skills and abilities to lead others. All you lack is
belief, confidence in yourself and
determination to succeed.
Now think of your life. Spend a little time answering
following questions:
What are your priorities in life?
Do you know what you want or what you need? Quite often wants and needs are transposed and become confused. Try
following exercise:
Take a piece of A4 or letter size paper and write at
top: What I want is……….
Now write down
things that come into your head don’t edit or hesitate. It doesn’t matter how ridiculous they appear just keep writing until you feel you have exhausted all topics. After all you are
only one who is going to read them.
Now, on another piece of paper write: What I need is…………….. And repeat
process.
At
end you have a list of wants and needs look at them, think about what you have written. What are you trying to tell yourself? Are there any themes? You should now have a rough idea of what your priorities in life are. Can you answer
following:
Where am I now?
What really drives me?
What is my passion?
Where am I going?
You now have an idea of what you believe in. What it is that really drives you and is your passion. You now have what
text books refer to as a clear vision. A vision about which you are deeply passionate. To be a successful leader all you need is zeal and enthusiasm for your passion and
capabilities to put your passion into action. Unlike
text books we are going to suggest;
1.You have
capabilities and what you don’t have you will pick up on
way. If you build your vision from your capabilities it can only limit your vision. The secret is to build your vision from your passion and then
capabilities come flooding in. The more you follow your dreams
more experience you gain. 2.You do not need influencing skills. Leadership influencing skills are many and various but most involve some form of manipulation e.g. rousing speeches, getting help from persuasive others, persuading others to do what you want but all
time pretending you are doing what they want etc. etc.