As long as Law of Attraction has only 'DON'T want' script, it is restricted to orchestrating that script over and over. We must give Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL to work with.

What do you really want in your relationships? Security? Affection? Loyalty? Companionship? Communication? What?

Do you wonder why you keep attracting certain types of people into your life? Are you tired of feeling disappointed in 'love? Have you ever been 'blind-sided' by someone you thought was a friend? Do you feel desperate to find that special person you can live with forever? Here are three steps that can help you in attracting more satisfying relationships:

1. Make a thorough list of all characteristics or scenarios of your past relationships that you DON'T WANT to experience again. You can use T-toolTM for this exercise or just take a fresh sheet of paper and draw a large 'T' on it.

Label left hand column: 'I Don't want' and right-hand column, 'I Do Want' Ask your Inner Self to remind you of past events that you do NOT want repeated. Write a few words about each event that express essence of that event. For example:

Step 2--Examine each item on 'I DON'T want ..." side and ask yourself this question: "If I don't want this, what DO I want?" Your list will look something like this:

One major reason why we keep attracting same unsatisfactory relationships is because we fail to use contrast contained in those negative events to get clear about what we DO want. Step 3--Write a Script about how you DO want your relationships to be:

If you've been practising Law of Attraction, then you're probably familiar with expressions, "just Allow" and "it will come." Well, technically, both expressions are true. However, 'Allowing' is not just thinking that you can have your desire--it's also knowing and feeling that it is possible. When we believe we can have our desire, we have no doubt in receiving it. In other words, we 'Allow'. Simply put, 'Allowing' is 'Absence of Doubt'.

Simply put,

Allowing is Absence of Doubt.

Understanding this concept makes using Law of Attraction to deliberately attract more of what you want much easier. The three-step formula for Deliberate Attraction is: (1) Identify Desire, (2) Raise Vibration (feeling), and (3) Allow it. Many of us are very good at first two steps, coming up with desire and getting excited about it, but third step is harder. In fact, Allowing step is one that needs most attention. The thing to keep in mind is that your desire can come to you very quickly, providing you have no resistance in receiving it. So removing or lessening your doubt - a process called 'Allowing' - is key.