It is very important that when you purchase a book on any subject that author is an expert in his or her field. So when purchasing an e-book on how to be successful make sure author can back-up there credentials

From studying this subject on how to be successful, rich and happy I have reached following conclusion;

The same method does not work for everyone.

It is important for you to recognise where your weaknesses lie and to build from there, but if recommended method does not work for you personally, do not continually pursue it. On other hand you have to be open to new ideas and concepts and try them.

This may sound like a contradiction but it is not intended to be. You see there are many ways to create a meaningful and successful life, and for many this does not mean earning sacks-full of money. Although I must admit I am personally money driven.

So always choose right program for you. Do not buy a book on how to make money from selling used cars if real problem is you have trouble motivating yourself. If you have low self-esteem, purchase a book or enrol in a program that specialises in improving your self-esteem, before you even think about how you are going to become a millionaire. If more people did this they would not be buying books that once read, just lay on book shelf.

If you look at very successful people they have all succeeded by using as set method, a formula, a state of mind. I call this “the correct mindset”. All of these methods differ in some way dependent upon what works for individual person. One common denominator however, is, they all want to succeed.

Now this person, who is chatty cathy, is using me for attention and approval she does not seem to be able to give to herself. She does not offer me anything she just takes my energy. I call these people emotional vampires. Now if I just stand there and listen I am doing two things that I never want to do in my life. I am caregiving afraid to hurt this person's feelings and I am enabling her to continue in this non-productive behavior.

Now I have someone in mind as I write this article. She is so needy. I do feel sorry for her but I do not want to just give her pity. I also do not want to just stand and spend my precious time as she pacify or calm chronic insecurity, her lonliness, and her emptiness. Whenever, I am out with her she traps not only me but store clerks, bank tellers, whoever will listen and don't know how to get away from her without being impolite. I avoid this person whenever possible and finally had to just tell her I didn't have time to be at end of a one sided conversation. I told her it drained me when she talked and talked and tried to fill up at my expense. Sound mean I don't think so. Most people would just avoid her and not answer phone when her number comes up.