When is last time you stopped and asked yourself if you're really living life you want? We live in busy times. Overwhelm and exhaustion is becoming norm. Why? Because we spend our time accomplishing tasks of day,not mindful of life we are building.
So what can you do? Take action! These ten steps will put you on path to taking control of and building life you desire.
Top Ten Ways to Get a Life You Can Live With
1. Say NO!
Donít let 'YES' come flying out of your mouth at first sign of a request. Notice how often you do things youíd rather not, and start making decisions based on what you want to do. Remember that you always have a choice.
2. Eliminate The 'Energy Drainers' From Your Life
Make a list of all things you put up with about situations, other people or yourself. Ask yourself what purpose does this energy drainer serve in my life and what are benefits of eliminating it? Commit to take action necessary to eliminate drainers.
3. Set Priorities That Reflect Your True Values
Does what you value match how you allocate your time? There is more to do in day then time to do it- decide whatís most important, focus on what you value, and say no to everything else.
4. Put Yourself First
Putting your self first is not selfish; itís actually best thing you can do for people around you. Once your needs are met and you are healthy and well taken care of, you will have more to offer everyone else.
5. Establish Boundaries and Set High Standards
Boundaries protect your time, space and energy and are guidelines to how others may treat you. Standards are principles by which you choose to live your life and clear, high standards allow you to easily make decisions that align with your values.