Problem: Many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep.How many people do you know that can't stand on their own two feet spiritually, that seem to be sick
entire winter every year, or that haven't shouted, "Amen!" since 1958?
Cure: If we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged, I Co. 11:30-31.
All our righteousness is as filthy rags, in comparison to God's way of thinking. His ways are higher than ours are. Understanding that, it seems odd when people go into a state of shock, being offended that another would even think they weren't perfect, when all God wanted to do was to set them free.
It takes a person maturing in their walk to be able to consider thoughts that might not be lined up with God's, without their pride or low self-esteem kicking into overtime.
When we allow ourselves to be introspective with ourselves, to see if any part might be in error, we accomplish what
Bible said. If people judge themselves, they shouldn't be judged.
When our insides begin to go haywire, instead of pointing to a person or circumstance, we can look inward and upward, asking God, "What is it about me that crumbles whenever this happens? Where does this feeling come from when I get angry over such little things? Why do I always fall apart in like circumstances? Why can't I trust You with my needs instead of taking matters into my own hands? Why do I expect
worst and get offended at people when I only presume to think I've seen their heart?"