It can be stuff of which fantasies are made and here’s why: to him it is a fantasy.

So how can you tell that man you're dating is married?

1. You’re suspicious.

Suspecting every man is prejudice, and means nothing. However, if you suddenly get suspicious about particular man you’re dealing with, trust your instincts. Where there’s smoke there’s fire.

2. His tone of voice gets guarded, he won’t make eye contact and is evasive when certain topics come up like family, children, vacations, where he lives, etc.

He isn’t fully disclosing when it would seem appropriate. He alludes to “things he’ll tell you about later.”

3. He insists that all contact be on his terms only.

He gives some reason why you must only call him at work or on his cell. You ask for his home phone number and he refuses to give it to you. Disregard “reason.” They can be ingenious about this and if you’re love-daffy, you’ll find a way to rationalize his particular excuse. Don’t.

4. It's best sex you've ever had.

What an ironic statement. Whoever said those words must have been drunk. The bottom line is this: It is extremely difficult to like or love something that you despise.

But what can we do to solve this dilemma? What if you're trapped in an environment that you don't want to be involved in? What if you're sick and tired of your job that you feel like puking every time someone mentions your work?

Of course, you take inspired and motivated action to get out of your present rut and start living life you've always dreamed of.

Guess what? It's not going to be easy. You will have to come out of your comfort zones to discover potentials and opportunities waiting for you. You have to conquer your fear and take calculated risks. You have to stay focused and persevere despite difficulties you will encounter.

Success doesn't come easy. It takes heart and passion. It may also take some time before you can actually reap fruits of your labor.

But how do you actually survive this stage? This is moment when you're working extra hard to reach your goals. This is also instance when you're enduring whatever adversity hits you.

For example, you're employed in a job that you hate. You know deep inside that you would not like to stay in rat race throughout your life. So you decided to engage in a part-time business or to study night courses. Good move, my friend.