I've found in much of my work with people on creating a better, more positive attitude towards life that many of us have a misunderstanding about success and what makes us successful.

Here are ten most common misconceptions people have about success and some thoughts about those misconceptions.

1. Some people can't be successful because of their background, education, etc.

Anybody can be successful. It's a matter of wanting to, then doing what it takes to achieve it.

2. Successful people don't make mistakes.

Successful people make mistakes just like we all do. They just don't repeat them.

3. You've got to work 60 (70, 80, 90...) hours a week to be successful.

It's not a matter of doing A LOT of something. It's more about doing right thing.

4. You'll only be a success if you play by rules.

Who makes up rules anyway? Each situation is different. Sometimes following rules is needed, other times making up your own rules is what's required.

Having an understanding of what things you do control can make it easier for you to gain control of your life and everything in it.

1. What you do.

Your actions are yours alone. You choose to make them or not make them and you are responsible for effects of those actions.

2. What you say.

Likewise, words you speak (or write) are also consciously chosen. Like actions, they have an impact on your life and lives of those you contact.

3. What you think.

Yes, there are some subconscious thoughts that you can't control. But things that you really think about, your beliefs, your ideals, etc. are concepts you have chosen to accept and believe in.

4. Your work.

Many people like to overlook this one, it being much easier to say "Oh, I'm trapped in my job because I don't have a degree, experience, etc."

Hogwash! That's simple a way of denying one's responsibility in having chosen job in first place. It's your job and you chose it. If you stay (or go), that's a choice as well.