Leaders are made, not born. Although many are gifted with an innate or natural ability to assess
situation, devise a course of action and then implement it, not all are so fortunate. In today's society, where do we turn to develop leadership skills.Where are our leaders? Where are
examples that set
standard for excellence? TV and movie stars, sports figures, political personalities, or corporate executives; many look to these to emulate. More and more of our young men and women, who will be tomorrows leaders, are looking for something other than
sex and violence, lies and under-handedness, back room deals, and scandalous lives of those who seem to get
most press.
Many of them are reaching for
stars and already excelling in many of life's arenas. They are not satisfied with
mundane. They know to be your best, you must assume a leadership role. They have found
laws that govern leadership. You've heard it said, "Practice makes perfect." But are you aware of
fact this is a false statement. If what we are practicing is imperfect, what we become is imperfect. So
truth is "Perfect practice makes perfect."
This is
reason so many of those whom we look to for guidance are failing in front of our eyes leaving many disillusioned. They have discovered
laws of leadership and achieved some great things in life, but failed to develop
proper core values which determine
strength of ones character. It's our personal core value system from which we pull
strength of character to not follow
same path that are leaders took to bring about their demise. Since
purpose of our existence is to make a life, it's essential we also develop
right attitude. With
right attitude we can be taught
core values upon which we will base our decisions in life while following
leadership skills we develop to obtain and maintain success in all our relationships. This applies to both personal and professional interests. Let us explore
Laws of Success and Failure, as this will show us what attitudes are and how they are developed. These are sometimes referred to as The Laws of Life and Death, Positive and Negative Forces, Light and Darkness depending on which author's work you are studying. Though they appear to be similar, they are not
same. More on this later.
Life is all that which has to do with well-being, wholeness, or enlightenment; be it body, soul or spirit. True lasting success in life is based upon living your life grounded in Truth. Death is all that which destroys; body, soul or spirit. Fear (anxiety, despair, poverty, nervousness, sickness, etc) is
force of Death. Failure comes when we base our decisions in life upon lies and deceptions.
Note: There are no half-truths. It's either true (leading to life) or false (a lie, leading to death), right or wrong.
You may or may not believe this. However, believing something doesn't necessarily make it so. These are laws and it matters little whether we choose to believe them or not, they still are and that makes them truth (Life). Acting in agreement with
law or truth, can be related to acting in faith.
You may not believe in
law of gravity but if you choose to step over
side of a cliff
outcome of that decision will still be
same. This brings up another point we must take into consideration. The matter of choice. We all have been given
power of choice. This action determines
results of our decisions. Success or failure. If we choose to act upon our unbelief or though ignorance and make that step off
cliff we have become very successful, although
results are less than our expectations. The law is always in operation.
In surmising this pay close attention to
progression of each pathway of choice. You can clearly see where life and death, successes or failures as many would say, are a direct result of our decisions.
1. Truth or Fiction- Agree or Disagree Leaders know
path which leads to life is acting upon or in agreement with
law or laws God has set-up to govern
matter at hand, in this case for success in life. This is
proper exercise of faith, for everyone has faith. It is an action. It is to reckon, consider and depend upon what God says over and against previous knowledge, experience, or feelings. This is also an exercise of our will (freedom of choice;) therefore everyone can believe and come into agreement with God's law, which is positive, in turn leading to positive outcomes or success in life and life itself.
Fiction or disagreement is unbelief. or believing a lie. Fear is
negative action of faith, or depending upon, reckoning or counting upon a deception as though it were true. This leads to our failures in life or death itself.
2. Our Thoughts Have Power. The thoughts we have, come from basically three places: God, Ourselves, or
devil. We are to guard our thoughts so they are continually in alignment with God's Laws. This is where your freedom of choice is most important. Renew your mind with what God has to say about
matter and learn to be selective. Choose to entertain only those thoughts which will keep you on
course of obtaining your goals and fulfillment of your life's purpose.
3. Where Attitudes Are Formed. Leaders also know that
thoughts we choose to entertain begin to form patterns. This is why it is a good habit to meditate. These habitual thought patterns are commonly called ATTITUDES. These attitudes determine your character and are displayed in your personality.