The Ten Commandments of Attitudes For Success

Written by Gaylon L. Avery


Leaders are made, not born. Although many are gifted with an innate or natural ability to assessrepparttar situation, devise a course of action and then implement it, not all are so fortunate. In today's society, where do we turn to develop leadership skills.

Where are our leaders? Where arerepparttar 126867 examples that setrepparttar 126868 standard for excellence? TV and movie stars, sports figures, political personalities, or corporate executives; many look to these to emulate. More and more of our young men and women, who will be tomorrows leaders, are looking for something other thanrepparttar 126869 sex and violence, lies and under-handedness, back room deals, and scandalous lives of those who seem to getrepparttar 126870 most press.

Many of them are reaching forrepparttar 126871 stars and already excelling in many of life's arenas. They are not satisfied withrepparttar 126872 mundane. They know to be your best, you must assume a leadership role. They have foundrepparttar 126873 laws that govern leadership. You've heard it said, "Practice makes perfect." But are you aware ofrepparttar 126874 fact this is a false statement. If what we are practicing is imperfect, what we become is imperfect. Sorepparttar 126875 truth is "Perfect practice makes perfect."

This isrepparttar 126876 reason so many of those whom we look to for guidance are failing in front of our eyes leaving many disillusioned. They have discoveredrepparttar 126877 laws of leadership and achieved some great things in life, but failed to developrepparttar 126878 proper core values which determinerepparttar 126879 strength of ones character. It's our personal core value system from which we pullrepparttar 126880 strength of character to not followrepparttar 126881 same path that are leaders took to bring about their demise. Sincerepparttar 126882 purpose of our existence is to make a life, it's essential we also developrepparttar 126883 right attitude. Withrepparttar 126884 right attitude we can be taughtrepparttar 126885 core values upon which we will base our decisions in life while followingrepparttar 126886 leadership skills we develop to obtain and maintain success in all our relationships. This applies to both personal and professional interests. Let us explorerepparttar 126887 Laws of Success and Failure, as this will show us what attitudes are and how they are developed. These are sometimes referred to as The Laws of Life and Death, Positive and Negative Forces, Light and Darkness depending on which author's work you are studying. Though they appear to be similar, they are notrepparttar 126888 same. More on this later.

Life is all that which has to do with well-being, wholeness, or enlightenment; be it body, soul or spirit. True lasting success in life is based upon living your life grounded in Truth. Death is all that which destroys; body, soul or spirit. Fear (anxiety, despair, poverty, nervousness, sickness, etc) isrepparttar 126889 force of Death. Failure comes when we base our decisions in life upon lies and deceptions.

Note: There are no half-truths. It's either true (leading to life) or false (a lie, leading to death), right or wrong.

You may or may not believe this. However, believing something doesn't necessarily make it so. These are laws and it matters little whether we choose to believe them or not, they still are and that makes them truth (Life). Acting in agreement withrepparttar 126890 law or truth, can be related to acting in faith.

You may not believe inrepparttar 126891 law of gravity but if you choose to step overrepparttar 126892 side of a cliffrepparttar 126893 outcome of that decision will still berepparttar 126894 same. This brings up another point we must take into consideration. The matter of choice. We all have been givenrepparttar 126895 power of choice. This action determinesrepparttar 126896 results of our decisions. Success or failure. If we choose to act upon our unbelief or though ignorance and make that step offrepparttar 126897 cliff we have become very successful, althoughrepparttar 126898 results are less than our expectations. The law is always in operation.

In surmising this pay close attention torepparttar 126899 progression of each pathway of choice. You can clearly see where life and death, successes or failures as many would say, are a direct result of our decisions.

1. Truth or Fiction- Agree or Disagree Leaders knowrepparttar 126900 path which leads to life is acting upon or in agreement withrepparttar 126901 law or laws God has set-up to governrepparttar 126902 matter at hand, in this case for success in life. This isrepparttar 126903 proper exercise of faith, for everyone has faith. It is an action. It is to reckon, consider and depend upon what God says over and against previous knowledge, experience, or feelings. This is also an exercise of our will (freedom of choice;) therefore everyone can believe and come into agreement with God's law, which is positive, in turn leading to positive outcomes or success in life and life itself.

Fiction or disagreement is unbelief. or believing a lie. Fear isrepparttar 126904 negative action of faith, or depending upon, reckoning or counting upon a deception as though it were true. This leads to our failures in life or death itself.

2. Our Thoughts Have Power. The thoughts we have, come from basically three places: God, Ourselves, orrepparttar 126905 devil. We are to guard our thoughts so they are continually in alignment with God's Laws. This is where your freedom of choice is most important. Renew your mind with what God has to say aboutrepparttar 126906 matter and learn to be selective. Choose to entertain only those thoughts which will keep you onrepparttar 126907 course of obtaining your goals and fulfillment of your life's purpose.

3. Where Attitudes Are Formed. Leaders also know thatrepparttar 126908 thoughts we choose to entertain begin to form patterns. This is why it is a good habit to meditate. These habitual thought patterns are commonly called ATTITUDES. These attitudes determine your character and are displayed in your personality.

Why God Allows Wickedness And Suffering

Written by Arthur Zulu


This isrepparttar reason whyrepparttar 126866 world groans in pain

We arerepparttar 126867 cause of our suffering.

Someone has been murdered somewhere as you read this. Elsewhere a woman has been raped. About a dozen wars are going on right now acrossrepparttar 126868 globe. And in some cave or mountain, terrorists are busy plottingrepparttar 126869 world's final hour. The question arises: Why does God allow these bad things to happen?

Our first parents, Adam and Eve arerepparttar 126870 source of wickedness and suffering in this world. The whole story is inrepparttar 126871 Bible book of Genesis Chapters 2 and 3.

God made them perfect and put them inrepparttar 126872 beautiful garden of Eden. They were to live happy, beget offsprings and take care ofrepparttar 126873 earth by expandingrepparttar 126874 borders ofrepparttar 126875 paradise, with a prospect of eternal life.

But take note. All these were not just offered on a platter of gold. There was a condition -- and this is very important -- they were to eat allrepparttar 126876 fruits of repparttar 126877 trees inrepparttar 126878 garden, excerpt one --repparttar 126879 fruit of repparttar 126880 tree of knowledge of good and bad. Disobedience would bring death! Simple instruction.

So man was not created like a robot. He was created withrepparttar 126881 right to make choices,repparttar 126882 freedom to make decisions.

Now this gift of free will --repparttar 126883 right to choose -- either good or bad, life or death, is not to be overlooked. So although we were created free, this freedom is not total, but relative. We are subject to God's laws. And what are those laws? you may ask.

First, we are underrepparttar 126884 physical laws of gravity. Man may decide to climbrepparttar 126885 highest peak of Mt. Everest, ignore this law, and take a giant leap torepparttar 126886 foot of repparttar 126887 mountain. Or he may close his eyes to allrepparttar 126888 risks, and go swimming inrepparttar 126889 angry waters ofrepparttar 126890 Atlantic Ocean. He hasrepparttar 126891 free will.

Also God has moral laws. These involve our life style which includesrepparttar 126892 use of alcohol and illicit drugs, tobacco and sexual promiscuity. Man may choose to have sexual relations with an AIDS victim with repparttar 126893 belief that he will never catchrepparttar 126894 dreaded disease. He hasrepparttar 126895 free will.

Then there are social laws. Man can choose his type of clothing, art, and music. He also hasrepparttar 126896 right to choose his type of friends and marriage mate. He may decide to live all alone inrepparttar 126897 jungle, away from civilization, or to walk naked inrepparttar 126898 streets of New York. That is his free will.

And lastly, there are health laws. A sick man hasrepparttar 126899 right to refuse medical treatment. He can also decide to go on hunger strike -- without food and water. After all, it is his free will.

Now, our being subject to God's laws is similar to our subjection torepparttar 126900 laws ofrepparttar 126901 State -- man's laws. The laws ofrepparttar 126902 nations recognizerepparttar 126903 citizen's fundamental human rights.

A citizen for instance has freedom of movement. But this does not mean that he should drive his car right intorepparttar 126904 President's bedroom. That is a ride to prison.

So you can see that there are limits to human freedom -- those rights have to operate withinrepparttar 126905 confines of repparttar 126906 rule of law.

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