Well, by now everyone has realized that little lady in story eventually realized all of her fondest dreams and wishes—not because she sat around idly daydreaming and wishing, but because she activated her faith and put wings on her dreams.

She got READY to receive her blessings. She took AIM with precision by knowing exactly what she wanted. She FIRED her "magic bullet" rifle repeatedly until each dream materialized. It never occurred to her to stop firing—and when her rifle was emptied out, she just reloaded and continued to fire until things were just as she had pictured them.

Notice that at no time did she use a shotgun—her aim was highly targeted, and she kept her eyes on her goals at all times. In face of any adversity, she put "blinders" on and plunged ahead with dogged determination.

If you're one of many who find it difficult to assert themselves following might be of assistance. Remember, you don't exist on this planet to be someone's doormat.

1. Don't avoid expressing your negative or critical feelings. They are not bad or improper, they are just your feelings and you are entitled to them.

2. Feelings aren't facts. They are just feelings.

3. Use "I" Language to indicate that feelings you are expressing are yours. You are not accusing or judging anyone.

4. You don't have to justify your feelings, you only need to state them.