The Power of Small

Written by Rick Beneteau


Routinely, I rise out of bed beforerepparttar birds, and watchrepparttar 122883 sunlight flood my office every morning. See, I love this time of day! But what I don't love is being rudely rousted out of a deep sleep before my normal rise and shine time, and every day forrepparttar 122884 past few months I have been.

I sleep withrepparttar 122885 windows open, and at around 4:00 each and every morning, rain or shine, there has been this very obnoxious bird "somewhere" close by screeching his mating call at what seems like 130 decibels! Many times I've wearily peered out to be able to witness first hand what sounded like a pterodactyl-size creature on some kind of steroids. But never would this clever 'lil creature reveal himself!

I appreciate nature as much asrepparttar 122886 next person, but this large sound at this wee hour ofrepparttar 122887 morning is not music to my ears! In one agitated state my fine-feathered foe put me in, I thought about locating a 'sportsman' inrepparttar 122888 neighborhood to take him out, but that was only wishful fantasizing. Besides, I don't believe in 'the sport of hunting.'

By now though, I've gotten pretty used to my tree dwelling alarm and looking onrepparttar 122889 positive side of this situation, could even thank him forrepparttar 122890 extra hour of work I am able to put in every day.

One day last week, I was pounding away on my laptop onrepparttar 122891 front porch swing, when lo and behold - THAT PIERCING SOUND AGAIN! And it was NEAR! Imagine my surprise when after peeking out from underrepparttar 122892 canopy, perched onrepparttar 122893 telephone line above was this teeny weenie finch, smaller than my prized canary, warbling away what was really a beautiful anthem, at least heard at this normal hour ofrepparttar 122894 day.

Oh my,repparttar 122895 power of small!

Now, may I ask: How many times in your life have you thought that you were "too small" to make a difference? How many times has this thought actually stopped you from doing something you knew in your heart was worthwhile? Perhaps something like changing careers, starting a new business, creating your own product or even buying that dream home. Like me, I bet plenty of times!

Think about this. Every great achievement in this world had its roots as a single thought inrepparttar 122896 mind of a single human being. There's no exception -repparttar 122897 greatest inventions,repparttar 122898 biggest corporations andrepparttar 122899 tallest skyscrapers were all borne ofrepparttar 122900 single idea of one individual!

The difference between most of us andrepparttar 122901 Henry Ford's and Bill Gates of this world isrepparttar 122902 total self-belief and conviction in their ideas to just "build it!" No matterrepparttar 122903 size, no matterrepparttar 122904 scope, no matterrepparttar 122905 naysayers around them. And, knowing full well thatrepparttar 122906 road to achieving their goal was going to be paved with major setbacks and failures.

Here's one of my favorite quotes about achievers:

"There are some people who live in a dream world, and there are some who face reality; and then there are those who turn one intorepparttar 122907 other." Douglas Everett

The Bulging Right Pocket

Written by Rick Beneteau


It was one ofrepparttar worst periods of time in my life.

Recently separated, I had just lost custody of my 2 daughters and was forced to vacate my newly-renovated home (with 3 days notice) that containedrepparttar 122882 well-equipped recording studio I had spent 2 years building prior to selling my drycleaning business (in order to build a long-desired music production company).

Divorce - Canadian style!

Two years before, I discovered that a *friend*, a music contact I had worked with and even spent time with in Hollywood a decade prior, had stolen a song that I and my music partner had written and presented to this budding writer/producer at that time. He had since become a major player inrepparttar 122883 music business and had lifted *so much* our song, placing it onrepparttar 122884 album of a multi-million selling female artist.

After much consideration and consultation with a prominent Detroit attorney, we decided to proceed with a lawsuit against this record producer. And, as these matters usually go, we had to retain high profile legal representation in California and also suerepparttar 122885 'innocents', in this caserepparttar 122886 recording artist, record company and publishing company, withrepparttar 122887 hope (at least mine) that they would bring pressure uponrepparttar 122888 sole guilty party to get a just settlement.

And of course, I was counter sued for over a million dollars and had to begin dealing with that ugly business.

Now, living with friends during this confusing, dark period of time, a call came from my California attorney. I was forced to confrontrepparttar 122889 inevitable - a trip to Los Angeles for a legal hearing.

I had neitherrepparttar 122890 heart norrepparttar 122891 will to follow through with this. Neither did I haverepparttar 122892 money forrepparttar 122893 flight and hotel as all my assets had been frozen byrepparttar 122894 divorce court atrepparttar 122895 time.

I recall, as if it were yesterday, how Doug somehow sensed my emotional turmoil and just matter-of-factly told me to pick uprepparttar 122896 airline ticket atrepparttar 122897 terminal and then invited me to stay with his family. This is whererepparttar 122898 real story begins.

Immediately after meeting Doug in person forrepparttar 122899 first time atrepparttar 122900 airport on a Friday afternoon, I felt so unusually comfortable. The hearing was on Monday but he had no intention of discussingrepparttar 122901 case at all onrepparttar 122902 drive to his home. Instead we talked about our families, friends, careers and hobbies. His was mountain climbing and he has since scaledrepparttar 122903 tallest peaks onrepparttar 122904 continent!

He told me about how much his wife and daughter were looking forward to having me stay with them. And, that he had planned get- togethers with some of his rather famous friends. See, we had built a rather unique friendship overrepparttar 122905 phone duringrepparttar 122906 time building up to this hearing, but I had no idea Doug would be going all out during our short visit.

I arrived at his beautiful home inrepparttar 122907 Hollywood Hills torepparttar 122908 warm hugs of Doug's wonderful wife and cuter-than-cute little daughter. If you've ever visited someone's home forrepparttar 122909 very first time and immediately, and truly felt right at home, well, this was one of those rare instances. Mi casa es su casa.

All of us had a great amount of fun getting to know one another and, as promised, we had most enjoyable Friday and Saturday evenings with Doug’s crazy but wonderful friends inrepparttar 122910 entertainment world. After all, I was in my element

Sunday night was sleepless however. Although I was very confident in Doug and his abilities (I'd love to be able to tell you who he has represented inrepparttar 122911 past butrepparttar 122912 terms ofrepparttar 122913 ultimate settlement in this action prohibit me from sharing any details that would identify any ofrepparttar 122914 parties involved), I was still very concerned about being in court with 4 sets of high-powered attorneys against, well, just me and Doug. Rumor had it thatrepparttar 122915 defendant's father, a very high profile attorney from a major U.S. city, was also flying in forrepparttar 122916 showdown.

Onrepparttar 122917 drive to downtown LA on Monday morning, we finally began discussingrepparttar 122918 case. Doug had put my mind at as much ease as possible as we headed towardrepparttar 122919 magnificent skyline. If you've ever seenrepparttar 122920 skyscrapers of Los Angeles in person or in movies, you will surely rememberrepparttar 122921 tall, white, rounded building inrepparttar 122922 center. Doug's office was nearrepparttar 122923 top floor.

He didn't park anywhere near it however. He pulled into this pay- per-day lot in a less than fashionable neighborhood many blocks away. Strange. Homeless people populatedrepparttar 122924 streets. We startedrepparttar 122925 long trek towardsrepparttar 122926 ivory tower but suddenly Doug stopped to speak to an old man with a wind-weathered face, crouched against a building clutching a "mickey" of cheap “Thunderbird" wine in his dirty, gnarled hands. He simply asked this poor soul how he was doing and if he had anything to eat recently. The reply was incoherent and Doug just smiled and handed him 2 one-dollar bills. We walked onward.

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