The Power of Negative ThinkingWritten by Remez Sasson
For some reason, most people find it easier to think in a negative way than in a positive manner. It seems that some effort is needed to think positive thoughts, whereas negative thoughts come easily and uninvited. This has much to do with education and environment one has been living in.In order to understand how positive thinking works, and how to use it efficiently, it is important to understand power of negative thinking. If you have been brought up in a happy and positive atmosphere, where people value success and self-improvement, then it will be easier for you to think positively and expect success. If you have been brought up under poor or difficult situations, you will probably go on expecting difficulties and failure. From an early age people let outside influences shape their minds. They view everything through their predominant mental attitude. If their thoughts are positive, that is fine, but if they are negative, their lives and circumstances will probably mirror these thoughts. If you believe that you are going to fail, you will unconsciously sabotage every opportunity to succeed. If you are afraid of meeting new people or having close relationships, you will do everything to avoid people and relationships, and then complain that you are lonely and nobody loves you. Do you often think about difficulties, failure and disasters? Do you keep thinking about negative news you have seen on TV or read in newspapers? Do you see yourself stuck and unable to improve your life or your health? Do you frequently think that you do not deserve happiness or money, or that it is too difficult to get them? If you do, then you will close your mind, see no opportunities, and behave and react in such ways, as to repel people and opportunities. You let power of negative thinking rule your life. The mind does not usually judge or examine thoughts and opinions before accepting them. If what it hears, sees and reads is always negative, it accepts this as standard way of thinking and behavior.
| | Climbing Mount GoalsWritten by Sean North
Climb and Summit Mt. GoalsAre you trying to reach a goal that feels like a large mountain to climb? Climbing a mountain is much easier than one would think. You start at bottom, you progress towards base camp, you hit middle of mountain, and then you reach summit. As climbers ascend, they come into contact with different elements such as thinner air and colder temperatures. If they climb mountain too quickly, they will not be used to new environment, and they will be out of their comfort zone. The same principle holds true for those of you who are climbing your own mountains, and striving for goals. As you climb higher to reach your goals, you will experience a different feeling. You may feel anxious, like mountaineer feels at bottom of mountain, knowing that his journey has only begun. You may feel overwhelmed like mountaineer who is at base camp, knowing that he has many steps to climb. You may feel excited, like mountaineer who has just hit middle of mountain, knowing that peak is within reach. You may feel proud of yourself, like mountaineer who has reached summit, knowing that he obtained his goal. So, How Can You Climb The Mountain To Your Goals? 1. Start at bottom - establish what your goals are. * Write down your goals. * Avoid generalizations such as I want to be happy or I want to be rich. WHAT would make you happy or WHAT would make you rich? * If you want to be happy, write down how you will accomplish this. Will you take up a new hobby? Will you go back to school? Will you spend more time with friends or family? The more specific you can be, better your chances of achieving your goal. * If you want to make more money, list details such as wanting to increase your income by 10% next year.
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