The POWER of Your WordsWritten by L.J. Davis
Words are truly powerful things. They are something that becomes a part of us, our history, and our legacy. From my own life experiences, I have understood how words, simple words said in passing to a child, can leave an impression and help manifest a future purpose.As a writer, I was born with words and stories of hope. When I was four, my mother let me construct words on a typewriter, always encouraging me to create more. Through years, she gave me words of strength, hope, and love that pushed me to become first person on both sides of my family to graduate from college. When I was in college, my English professor, Dr. Joanne Dempsey, told me one rainy day, "One day, you will be a writer." I've kept these women's powerful words in my heart and have, in turn, tried to give words of hope and encouragement to others. Through years, I have tried to pass on legacy that Dr. Dempsey, perhaps unknowingly, left for me that one rainy day. She taught me, as did my mother, that words spoken to an impressionable mind can invoke a sense of purpose that fulfills a destiny. For, indeed, all of us have a purpose. Our purpose lies like a tiny ember in our heart, stoked into brilliant flame by kind words of a stranger, a mentor, a parent, or a friend. A teacher can tell a struggling student, “You’re smart,” and those words help him find confidence to become President of United States. A stranger can say “You’re pretty” to a young girl from Mississippi and those words help her become a beloved humanitarian. A parent can say, “You’re special,” and those words can help his children unleash power of potential. Each day I give my two daughters, Dempsey and Ceiley, words to reach forward and fulfill their purpose. I believe that we are given gift of a child and, like wise elders of years past, we are meant to infuse them with all of our history and knowledge. The words of past and words of future connect us all like links in a chain. All powerful words give hope. The mightiest words are those we share with our children. They must know words of our ancestors for all families are linked together like a chain. Children must know value of their particular link. They must strengthen their bond and pass on words to their children so that future generations can grow in spirit. But how do we do this? Children are really taking a back seat in our society. Many children are spoiled, lacking nothing, but lacking much. For what they lack are words that would jump start their human spirit. The words that would make them tingle with an excitement to learn new things and explore their natural environment. I have crafted many stories about human relationships, but one day I was really struck by this particular notion of purpose. My daughters and I were walking home from school when a simple brown leaf fell silently from an oak tree lining sidewalk. No one really noticed. My kids kept walking but suddenly, for me, time stood still. It was sort of a "if a tree falls in woods" moment. Why did leaf fall, I wondered, and who really cared? I realized that even that leaf had a purpose, one that it may not have even realized.
| | Goal Setting for KidsWritten by Cecile Peterkin
Goal setting is essential for building a successful life. However, teaching kids how to set and achieve goals is not part of most school curriculums, nor is it taught in most homes. Many parents never learned techniques of goal setting, and are still struggling with their own. You don't need to know it all. While you develop your own goal-setting skills, you can also be helping and encouraging your children to develop theirs. Goal setting is a life-long skill. It helps your child to focus their unique gifts and talents, it helps to cultivate and strengthening your child's self-worth, and equips them to lead a life full of meaning purpose, and direction, regardless of professional or personal paths they choose.Things to consider when setting goals with your kids CAREER - school grades, skill development, future plan (ambition); PERSONAL- character development, and personal growth (self-image, sense of responsibility, ability, sefl-esteem), appearance HEALTH - exercise, diet, over-all well-being, balance COMMUNITY - commitment to serving others (volunteer work) FINANCIAL - understanding value of money, earning, saving FRIENDS - expanding their circle of friends, choosing friends wisely HOUSEHOLD - chores, contribution to building home life RECREATION - hobbies, relaxation, fun activities (movies, parties, etc.) ,
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