Kids Just Wanna have FUN!
During
recent “schools out session” for
holidays. I was reminded how much
kids crave entertainment. No matter what time of year
“Kids Just Wanna Have Fun.” And who could blame them? I don’t think there are many of us who haven’t longed for
carefree, playful days of our youth. I have four of these carefree fun hungry kids. Keeping them entertained on a tight budget is always a challenge.
I have discovered over
years that more money doesn’t necessarily mean more fun. In fact, some of
simplest, age old activities, seem to feed their fun hungry souls
best. Remember, in
“old days” that is
“very old days”. Family gatherings provided a great source of entertainment. Its hard to believe that in today’s fast paced, high tech, world that children still enjoy this kind of interaction.
I have found that for some reason, maybe because it validates their own behaviors, kids love to hear stories of when we were young. No, not
kind that remind them of how good they have it today. I’m talking about our childhood antics,
times when we misbehaved, did something wrong, and
consequences .
Most of us have funny moments in our life that just stick with us. Sometimes they weren’t so funny at
time at least from our prospective, then. My kids love to hear stories of my childhood antics, when I broke
rules, how I felt about it , and what punishment I had to endure because of it. They especially like
punishment part. Some sort of satisfaction knowing that I had to endure
cruelties of punishment also!
Of course it doesn’t sound amusing to talk about times when you got in trouble. But, those memories are funny to us now that we look back at our childhood. Sure we can laugh now……… We’re a lot smarter and see
innocence of our ways.
This is a great way to also remind ourselves that we were once kids also. And not so different than our own kids. With much
same innocence, gullibility, and scheming potential. Ahhhh… a great tool for reminding us that at least some of
behaviors we frown on in our kids is just
normal age old process of growing up! A very reassuring thought when you’re ready to pull your hair out.
In some ways this ritual of reminiscing shows our children that we love them unconditionally. That we understand. Why, because we’ve been there, done that. And we acted in many ways , and felt in many ways ,
same way they do today. Its true that some things never change. I have a shorter list of tales to tell being one of three siblings. My husband on
other hand is one of eleven children, and he can keep them in belly busting laughter for hours, leaving them begging for more. Telling not only his own antics but those of his brothers and sisters.
So, if you ever find everyone sitting around looking bored to
gills, start up a casual conversation and work in some of your funny moments in life. You’ll have them begging for more and more tales. “Tell some more, tell some more!” And
best part ….. It’s Free Entertainment!
With a little research….what was that?……..research? If you’ve been to visit http://www.simpledebtfreeliving.com you know this is one of my pet peeves….. If you don’t know what’s out there or if you don’t know what you’re looking for, you’re doomed to spend too much of your hard earned money!
There no disputing
fact that an “ Informed Consumer = More Savings! “ There! I said it again. Boy did that feel good. Well now that I got that off my chest let me share some ideas on this FUN thing.