When I was still that puny little kid of 8 years old, I would often explain to myself, and often times in my head, why we have "this" and why we have "that". I would often believe that I am right and when an "explanation" struck me like why sky is blue and not pink, I would go right to encyclopedia and then found out that I was, indeed, closer to truth. I thought of myself as strange and lucky at same time, never thinking that at some point, these "bursts" of thoughts would make me a more bolder type of person. Never afraid of quantified but calculable risks.

Last night, I devoured words and thoughts of some of our "successful thinkers" in their prime. Corey Rudl, Marlon Sanders, Terry Dean and a lot more. I was in that deep self-less thought wondering what "really" made them click and hot and why their words and thoughts alone sell in millions. These are what I found out.

Never afraid to be what you have to be

There would always be a point in your life when you would burst bubble and tell yourself that you would never be successful. Wrong. Everyone of us has a reason to be here. Never be afraid to do what you want to do or to be what you have to be. There will be a time when you have to let go of your creativity, of your inner self and be super person that you are.

I had dreams of becoming a successful songwriter and singer even when I was 5 years old. I would often see myself on stage with bright lights and people showering me with compliments. I can never let go of that inspiration until I came to a point that I was doing it. I now have national multiple song writing awards and I am proud that some of most successful singers have been singing songs of my childhood..of what I've been through.

Let your pain make you strong

We all have our pains. Pains from our experiences past and present. Perhaps you're most unloved child. You did not finish high school. You seperated from your wife or husband. Never less, you should not let your pain make you weak. Get your strength from it. I can't tell you how but you're only one who can control your emotions. You can change yourself and only from "inside-out".

Most successful people had traumatic experiences when they were young. Perhaps a close love one died. They were very poor and had practically nothing to eat.

One story my dad always loved to tell was of his relative who was so poor that he had to borrow my dad's clothes to go to school.

The most important thing that successful "Home Grown" websites have in common is:

1. They got started. 2. They don't get discouraged by mistakes. 3. They learn from there mistakes. 4. They remain persistent in reaching there netreprenuer goals. 5. They focused on one thing and did it to best of there ability. 6. They seen what competition was up to and used it to there advantage. 7. They educated themselves with best marketing strategies and techniques. 8. They used advertisement in many forms. 9. They chose something of interest to keep themselves from losing interest in there project. 10. They didn't fall prey to those who told them they were wasteing there time and money.

I strongly suggest you would do same. After all work should be something you enjoy, not dread. If you can't enjoy what you are doing it will be difficult to motivate yourself to continue on when problems arise.

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1.) Lets elborate on "they got started". If income or lack of money is stopping you from getting started, don't let it. There are plenty of web site hosts out there that offer free hosting and free subdomain names. It is a good way to get a feel for what you are doing before you start paying for hosting. The more you learn as you go better off you will be reaching your goals creating a living online.

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2.) Don't get discouraged by mistakes. You've most likely heard that phrase for most of your life! Even if you haven't you will know that is easier said than done. I will give you some suggestions to help you resist discouragement.

Start with keeping your main goal in mind. Use prayer as your main tool for talking with God. Read positive quotes and articles. Keep them posted where you can see them. Keep them in your pocket when your out and about so you can review them.

Don't talk to people about what you are going through who have a negative outlook on life. Instead talk to people who will listen objectively and have overcome seemingly imposible obsticles in there own life.

Sing songs of encouragement. Create a tape or CD of them so you can listen to them when you start feeling down or discuraged.

Just by following these suggestions everyday you will keep a positive outlook on reaching greatness. You will be redirected from discouragement and be able handle problems with alot less stress.

3.) Learn from your mistakes, don't let them rob your vision from you.

Fact is everyone and every company makes mistakes, no matter how big or small they are. The successful ones don't let those mistakes distract them from there objective.

Go over what went wrong look for flaw in your flawless plan. Have someone with an objective opinion review mistake and see if they can give you there input. Have several people do it if you can. Even negative ones. If you have budget, hire a consultant.