The Inner DialogueWritten by Remez Sasson
Do you talk with yourself? When we hear people talking aloud with themselves we consider it weird. But have you noticed that all people, with no exception, talk silently with themselves? This, we do not consider odd or weird.If someone hurts you in some way, or says something you do not like, what do you do? You enact a whole scene of anger in your mind! You envision yourself talking angrily; you shout at him and tell him some not so nice things. Sometimes people spend hours in such negative, destructive inner dialogues. There is a continuous conversation going on in everyone's head, and a lot of energy, time and attention are wasted on small unimportant incidents. This conversation goes on from moment of waking until falling asleep. The inner dialogue continues while working, studying, reading, watching TV, talking, walking, eating, etc. There is a constant judging of people, commenting on what is going on, planning, gossiping, and mental conversations with people. These inner dialogues bring about a snowball effect. The more we conduct them, more we become chained to them and unable to stop them. When emotions are also evoked, more power, energy and attachment are added. This has an adverse effect on behavior, judgment and general performance. On many occasions inner dialogue is negative and strengthens any negative attitude and behavior. Few people have enough faith in themselves and in their abilities, so as to conduct positive inner dialogues. The process and effect of these inner conversations is similar to affirmations. Constant thinking about same subject influences subconscious mind, which consequently accepts these thoughts and words and acts on them. Negative inner dialogues bring negative results, and positive inner dialogues bring positive results. You can use this process to your advantage. It is an automatc activity, which goes on whether you are aware of it or not. If you learn to become aware of it, you gain ability to control it. You can turn it into a positive dialogue. If you do that, you come to realize that you have a mighty power in your possession .
| | 10 Magical Steps to Fulfilling Your Prosperity Dream!Written by Melissa Zollo
So you want to be successful, healthy, happily married, and rich? Do you feel like a successful, healthy, happily married, accepted, rich person? Or do feelings of resistance, frustration, anxiety, insecurities and deceit shadow you? Are you still feeling needy, lost, rejected and deprived? Do you "see" wealthy people as scavengers ready to gobble up goods? Are you envious of what another has? Do you feel guilty and identify with poverty and failure? Are you surrounded by people who don't believe in you?If you feel negative about money, success and yourself, you are not resonating from fulfillment of your prosperity dream. You are still being defined by lack. If so, your desire for success will remain just that -a desire. If you continually feel depressed, annoyed, upset, and irritated with yourself or outside world, you are generating negative vibrations. If you are someone who is used to suffering and not getting what you want from life, you are still living in a poverty/ failure vibrational frequency.If your old mental and emotional habits don't feel right anymore, stop wearing them, way you would stop wearing a pair of shoes that don't fit. It is up to you to create an alternate future and set forces to work for you rather then against you. Habits are like clothes, you wear them. They fit your personality and self-image. Some clothes make you feel like a million dollars while others make you feel fat. So often, we wear same old clothes just because we are use to them.The same can be said for mental habits and feelings. Over 90% of your thoughts and reactions were learned. Whenever a situation arises that reminds you of past you tend to interpret it through old emotional responses. If for example, you were whipped a lot, you have to help yourself move through your fearful feelings every time you see a whip. When you free this blocked emotion, whips are just whips. When you deal with your feelings using Principle of Imaging you will heal your past memory and move into present moment. Instead of being reactive you become proactive! Here are 10 steps to Feeling Prosperous and Fulfilled. 1.Listen to your inner conversations. What are your mental habits telling you? A poverty mindset knows why things can't work out. A successful mindset always steps up to plate and looks for a way to work through a crisis. Start having discussions with yourself moment you feel a hysterical reaction coming on. If you get in habit of intervening on your own behalf you will proceed to hold a correct attitude and change your emotional reactions. 2.Meet Challenge. If you have a melt down and lose your focus, freak out, and go into an emotional tail spin, once it's over go back to your image and refocus. You don't have to beat yourself up because you lost it. A fall out doesn't have to become a major set back. You are learning to identify when you are vibrating from an error pattern. Things may still scare and upset you for awhile .You are in process of building self- trust and self-confidence. You will be able to meet an obstacle every step of way once you develop a good relationship with your deeper Self. 3.Congratulate yourself.Give yourself credit when you react to a negative situation as an opportunity rather then a setback. Get in habit of comforting and nourishing yourself when things don't go right and you will not succumb to destructive emotions. Each time you do this you will make a deposit into your emotional security bank. And feeling safe and secure is vibration that attracts prosperity. Keep investing in yourself and you will resonate with abundance and optimism. Before you know it, you will start feeling entitled to having good relationships and success! 4.Throw off old you like a snake shedding its skin. If something happens that threatens your peace of mind reassure yourself that all is well. How? Direct all of your attention to that which is good. Focus is winner's companion. In time you will learn how to keep your cool when boogie monster shows up.
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