The Green-Eyed Capitalist

Written by Sam Vaknin


Conservative sociologists self-servingly marvel atrepparttar peaceful proximity of abject poverty and ostentatious affluence in American - or, for that matter, Western - cities. Devastating riots do erupt, but these are reactions either to perceived social injustice (Los Angeles 1965) or to political oppression (Paris 1968). The French Revolution may have beenrepparttar 103712 last timerepparttar 103713 urban sans-culotte raised a fuss againstrepparttar 103714 economically enfranchised.

This pacific co-existence conceals a maelstrom of envy. Beholdrepparttar 103715 rampant Schadenfreude which accompaniedrepparttar 103716 antitrust case againstrepparttar 103717 predatory but loaded Microsoft. Observerepparttar 103718 glee which engulfed many destitute countries inrepparttar 103719 wake ofrepparttar 103720 September 11 atrocities against America,repparttar 103721 epitome of triumphant prosperity. Witnessrepparttar 103722 post-World.com orgiastic castigation of avaricious CEO's.

Envy - a pathological manifestation of destructive aggressiveness - is distinct from jealousy.

The New Oxford Dictionary of English defines envy as:

"A feeling of discontented or resentful longing aroused by someone else's possessions, qualities, or luck ... Mortification and ill-will occasioned byrepparttar 103723 contemplation of another's superior advantages."

Pathological envy -repparttar 103724 fourth deadly sin - is engendered byrepparttar 103725 realization of some lack, deficiency, or inadequacy in oneself. The envious begrudge others their success, brilliance, happiness, beauty, good fortune, or wealth. Envy provokes misery, humiliation, and impotent rage.

The envious copes with his pernicious emotions in five ways:

They attackrepparttar 103726 perceived source of frustration in an attempt to destroy it, or "reduce it" to their "size". Such destructive impulses often assumerepparttar 103727 disguise of championing social causes, fighting injustice, touting reform, or promoting an ideology.

They seek to subsumerepparttar 103728 object of envy by imitating it. In extreme cases, they strive to get rich quick through criminal scams, or corruption. They endeavor to out-smartrepparttar 103729 system and shortcut their way to fortune and celebrity.

They resort to self-deprecation. They idealizerepparttar 103730 successful,repparttar 103731 rich,repparttar 103732 mighty, andrepparttar 103733 lucky and attribute to them super-human, almost divine, qualities. Atrepparttar 103734 same time, they humble themselves. Indeed, most of this strain ofrepparttar 103735 envious end up disenchanted and bitter, drivingrepparttar 103736 objects of their own erstwhile devotion and adulation to destruction and decrepitude.

They experience cognitive dissonance. These people devaluerepparttar 103737 source of their frustration and envy by finding faults in everything they most desire and in everyone they envy.

They avoidrepparttar 103738 envied person and thusrepparttar 103739 agonizing pangs of envy.

Envy is not a new phenomenon. Belisarius,repparttar 103740 general who conqueredrepparttar 103741 world for Emperor Justinian, was blinded and stripped of his assets by his envious peers. I - and many others - have written extensively about envy in command economies. Nor is envy likely to diminish.

In his book, "Facial Justice", Hartley describes a post-apocalyptic dystopia, New State, in which envy is forbidden and equality extolled and everything enviable is obliterated. Women are modified to look like men and given identical "beta faces". Tall buildings are razed.

Joseph Schumpeter,repparttar 103742 prophetic Austrian-American economist, believed that socialism will disinherit capitalism. In "Capitalism, Socialism, and Democracy" he foresaw a conflict between a class of refined but dirt-poor intellectuals andrepparttar 103743 vulgar but filthy rich businessmen and managers they virulently envy and resent. Samuel Johnson wrote: "He was dull in a new way, and that made many people think him great." The literati seek to tear downrepparttar 103744 market economy which they feel has so disenfranchised and undervalued them.

Hitler, who fancied himself an artist, labeledrepparttar 103745 British a "nation of shopkeepers" in one of his bouts of raging envy. Ralph Reiland,repparttar 103746 Kenneth Simon professor of free enterprise at Robert Morris University, quotes David Brooks ofrepparttar 103747 "weekly Standard", who christened this phenomenon "bourgeoisophobia":

Transform Your Image And Accelerate Your Success

Written by Lorraine Pirihi


Being a lifelong student, I am regularly attending seminars etc. to becomerepparttar best I can be in all areas of my life.

Inrepparttar 103711 past year I have undertaken an Image and Brand Management Program with Image Group International andrepparttar 103712 knowledge I have gained and applied has affected so many areas of my life and my business.

Being a 'holistic' program it has encompassed topics like branding, colour psychology, personal image, inner image, communication and so much more.

In this article I'm going to focus on personal image and how it affects your results.

Do You Dress For Success? Being an avid networker, I get to meet many people and am constantly astounded byrepparttar 103713 wayrepparttar 103714 majority present themselves.

I met a ''coach' who raved about how successful they are and what they do for their clients. This person was at least 10kgs overweight, her chest was exposed and her clothes were very inappropriate for a business environment. If you were looking for a coach, would you consider investing in her services? She obviously had her own issues to deal with. What she said didn't match how she looked.

The accountant who called himself a 'wealth strategist'…he had a beard, looked very unhealthy and was wearing a tweed jacket….what impression did he make? None. He appeared scruffy and obviously didn't take care of himself. How could he take care of other people's affairs?

In contrast to these people,repparttar 103715 mortgage broker who was dressed extremely well in a tailored suit ,who obviously took pride in her appearance and looked confident and competent. If you were interested in borrowing money would you consider utilising her services? Of course you would. She gaverepparttar 103716 impression that she knows what she's doing. Byrepparttar 103717 way, whether she is competent or not you'll only find that out if you do business with her. However if she cares about herself, chances are she cares about her clients and provides a good service.

Perception is Reality Would you prefer to do business with someone who looks confident and credible? Whether we like it or not people will pass judgement on you within a few seconds of meeting you. They will make assumptions about you personally and your organisation.

Would I Do Business With You? Think about it, what opinion would you form about a person who looked old fashioned, dressed in ill - fitting clothes and wore heaps of make-up? You'd probably think their ideas were old fashioned to match their image. And that also gives an impression ofrepparttar 103718 organisation they represent.

What aboutrepparttar 103719 50 year old lady I met who runs conferences and turned up in high-heeled shoes, short skirt, long hair and big dangly earrings?

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