The Giving Spirit

Written by Melissa Zollo


What are your holidays like? Arerepparttar chestnuts roasting on an open fire? Sometimes beforerepparttar 130518 Thanksgiving dishes have been cleared away, we are outrepparttar 130519 door and digging deep into our pocketbooks and spending lavishly on things we don’t even care about. The Sales are on and we are determined to surviverepparttar 130520 personal trials of "mall shopping". The bells are ringing as we get deeper into debt or upset because we can’t findrepparttar 130521 right gift, or be withrepparttar 130522 right person. As plans are being made, depression sets in because we have to be with certain family members, or not be with them. Asrepparttar 130523 holiday music plays on, we feel more anxiety and so we splurge on party food and drink or we starve ourselves fromrepparttar 130524 stress of being lonely and frustrated. Oftentimes it is somewhere in January that we realize we haven’t implemented a simpler and happier way to experiencerepparttar 130525 holidays.We wonder, what was that all about?Is this holiday everything you’d like it to be or have you hit a rock bottom low and are you just going throughrepparttar 130526 motions?Your Emotions rock! Life is one great big music scale. Nothing rests. Repetition of negative past holiday memories plus putting your focus onrepparttar 130527 lower emotions will result in your life or your holidays sounding like a broken record. If you persistently return to what frightens, saddens and upsets you, you deny yourself relief inrepparttar 130528 moment.In other words:·Misery blocks happiness. ·Fear collapses confidence, denies vision and shuts down creative growth. ·Worrying about things causes you to compromise your dreams, leaving you enslaved and chained to old habits. ·"Stress Provokers" increase your sense of panic and anger often forrepparttar 130529 wrong reasons. ·Anger dissolves good decision-making. ·Hate halts normal healthy life and slamsrepparttar 130530 door on possibilities. ·The vibration of distress attracts distress. Hurt attracts hurt. Pain attracts pain. What to do? Here are a few suggestions:1.Calm down. No one can do this for you 2.Heal yourself and you will haverepparttar 130531 energy to deal with life's challenges. 3.Stoprepparttar 130532 guilt. Guilt is a sign that you aren't in tune withrepparttar 130533 Source Within. 4.Practice feeling grateful for something, even if it isrepparttar 130534 ability to dream. 5.Just say yes to what you want and need to do for yourself. 6.Just say no to what you don't want and can't afford to participate in. 7.Resolve to free yourself from living life according torepparttar 130535 demands of others. 8.Seek thoughts that inspire happiness, courage and joy. 9.Practice feeling content amidstrepparttar 130536 holiday hullabaloo. 10.Communicate rather then repress or suppress what concerns you. 11.Focus onrepparttar 130537 solutions. Go out and look atrepparttar 130538 stars! 12.Go unwrap your sense of humor. Laughter isrepparttar 130539 key to a long & meaningful life. 13.Decide to cherish yourself then walk inrepparttar 130540 direction of your dreams fulfilled. 14.Remember, you are a living miracle. Treat yourself like a precious gift and you will be living inrepparttar 130541 true Spirit ofrepparttar 130542 holidays! Imaginative, dynamic thinkers and dreamers know that they haverepparttar 130543 ability to uplift their thinking and feelings even duringrepparttar 130544 most challenging moments. They choose to do this because they know that peace, joy, love, compassion, and good will towards others is a gift to themselves.Visionaries know how to changerepparttar 130545 direction of their thoughts. They choose to walkrepparttar 130546 path of joy because it is this path that allows them to have, do and be all that they dream of.·Joy attracts joy ·Success attracts success ·Love attracts love Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, " Always do what you are afraid to do." Are you afraid to feel your pain and let it go-- enjoy yourself and move on-- live your dreams-- and best of all-- love yourself in spite of adversity?This Holiday Season Believe inrepparttar 130547 Magic Within and giverepparttar 130548 most sacred gift of all—the gift of an image. No matter who or what you are imaging about, allow yourself time to relax and center yourself inrepparttar 130549 spirit of love. If your image is to experience loving relationships and fulfilling companionship or better health, or more prosperity, orrepparttar 130550 right career opportunity, turn within torepparttar 130551 Source of All That Is. Whether your challenges are emotional or physical open yourself up to relief and healing.Moving through pain, letting go, and capturingrepparttar 130552 feeling of love is your assurance thatrepparttar 130553 blessing of a new birth is onrepparttar 130554 horizon. For as you believerepparttar 130555 unbelievable to be true, you expressrepparttar 130556 greatness that is truly within you.The story of Christmas is about believingrepparttar 130557 unbelievable.

Assimilation vs Accumulation

Written by Steve Davis


Assimilation vs Accumulation The practice of getting full nourishment from everything in your life.

Western culture has reached a level of material wealth greater than at any time in history. We include in this material wealth, wealth of information as well. Currently, atrepparttar pinnacle of our ability to manipulate our environment and produce allrepparttar 130516 things we need, and many that we don't, it's entirely possibly that many of our ills are arising as a result of our inability to handle this incredible glut of input, in all of its forms.

Prior torepparttar 130517 recent age, when resources and information were scarce and hard to come by, we would never think of turning either of these away. The arrival of this incredible abundance is relatively recent, inrepparttar 130518 past 50 years or so, withrepparttar 130519 refinement of industry andrepparttar 130520 emergence ofrepparttar 130521 information age andrepparttar 130522 Internet. It has come upon us so quickly that many of us haven't learned or prepared ourselves to handle this new level of abundance. If indeed it is possible to adapt and prepare ourselves forrepparttar 130523 onslaught at all.

We haven't asked ourselvesrepparttar 130524 questions, "How much is enough?" "What do I value over everything else?" We just cannot say "no" to available "things" and information that meet our fancy. And, in some ways, we crave each new thing withrepparttar 130525 hope that it will somehow set us free. Consequently, we are literally dying from over consumption in one form or another.

More than halfrepparttar 130526 US population is now considered "obese," while people are starving for renewal of "spirit" and "soul" in their lives and work. People are busier, have less time, and often feel overwhelmed, surrounded by "too much stuff" and stressed out under repparttar 130527 growing burden of "too much information."

Application

How do we cope withrepparttar 130528 temptation to consume ourselves into oblivion? Our proposal is simple. We suggest two things. First, that you begin replacingrepparttar 130529 habit of "accumulating" withrepparttar 130530 practice of "assimilating." And second, that you make sure what you ingest in any form is ofrepparttar 130531 highest quality possible. Let's first quickly define these words:

Accumulate: To heap up in a mass; to pile up; to increase; to collect or bring together; to amass; as, to accumulate a sum of money.

Assimilate: To appropriate and transform or incorporate intorepparttar 130532 substance ofrepparttar 130533 assimilating body; to absorb or appropriate, as nourishment; as food is assimilated and converted into organic tissue.

Proper assimilation and digestion of food, experience, and information will allow us to extract its full benefit and put it to good use. Whereas overstuffing ourselves, in any of these arenas will cause a buildup of unsightly fat, waste, stress, toxicity, confusion, unease, often fueling an unconscious compulsion for more. All of us know how much better we feel when we push ourselves away fromrepparttar 130534 table before we're full, andrepparttar 130535 satisfied feeling we get when we give ourselves a little time for our systems to "assimilate" what we've taken in.

Unconscious compulsions for "more input" seldom satisfy our true needs. Nor will having piles of unread books and magazines ringing our desks reducerepparttar 130536 nagging sense that there is some piece of information that will really change everything for us.

Satisfaction comes from fully digesting and extractingrepparttar 130537 fine nutrients from what we already have, and making choices for new input based on our true values and passions, not our casual likes and vague interests.

Saying yes to only what most serves our needs and resonates with our deepest sense of self, and our chosen mission will go a long way to lessenrepparttar 130538 burden. So will focusing on what is important to ours and not someone else's sense of self.

How to Facilitate Assimilation

Of Information. We often spend a great deal of time looking for that special piece of information or that magical answer to our current problem when more often than not,repparttar 130539 answer we seek is right in front of us.

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