The Faster You Move ...

Written by Ed Hirsch


Like a photograph reflects or representsrepparttar image photographed ... The way we live our lives and who we are continually becoming over time reflects and representsrepparttar 123767 true beliefs we carry in our heart.

External appearance is nothing more than a mere Window dressing to what is really going on.

In Business, especially when searching high and low for quality Business Partners ... we should definitely put requirements on other people before qualifying them as actual partners. We want to get into Relationship with them to ensure we agree that we have mutual understandings ... and if we don't, they may Know someone who they may refer to us who DO meet our Partnership standard.

My point is that we should pursue Relationship first ... and by making thisrepparttar 123768 priority, we will naturally Network and find whatever it is we are searching for in life and business.

The simple concept of Caring about people will take you a long way in business.

Many times in business, we do not put people first, and I have learned that whenever this is perceived by others, almost immediately, relationship is lost. Also, when communication is lost or slows down, this isrepparttar 123769 first symptom of losing relationship.

Sharing fromrepparttar 123770 Heart is a great way for unconditional relationships ... being honest, but, not too honest where you don't considerrepparttar 123771 other person's feelings. Nobody likes to be made to feel like they are wrong, so we should only encourage when they are right ... and when they are wrong, be specific torepparttar 123772 THING they DID that was wrong, not that THEY were wrong. In this way, hopefully, relationship will be improved because you are demonstrating that you care enough about them to have made them aware of doing something better that behooves THEM.

When It's Time To Go

Written by David Stoddard


There comes a time when we are presented with an opportunity for something better than what we have. A new job or promotion which will take us closer to what we have dreamed, or you get a letter in repparttar mail saying you may already be a winner.

You might even feel like chucking it all and joiningrepparttar 123766 flying Wallendas as you tour aroundrepparttar 123767 world on your tightrope of fame, or maybe you'll just feelrepparttar 123768 need to get offrepparttar 123769 hamster wheel and find something new.

It's all good. It is your life, and you haverepparttar 123770 right and responsibility to yourself to do what you need to do, want to do, or just would like to do.

Maybe you haterepparttar 123771 idea of leaving a job you like a lot but know there is something better you are moving towards. Perhaps you have just been there because you couldn't see yourself doing much else for one reason or another, until now. Or, like so many, you cannot wait to tell those so-and-sos what you really think of this place as you walk outrepparttar 123772 door, head held high and never looking back.

But as you think about it, there come these mixed feelings. Yes, it is time to move on with your life. But I have so much freedom in this position. Not sure at all what I am getting myself into moving forward. They never respected me nor what I brought torepparttar 123773 table, forget them. I was good at what I did. I hope they can handle things without me. Boy, will they be sorry I'm gone.

It isn't always easy moving from one part of your life to another. If it was a place we liked most ofrepparttar 123774 time, we hope that those we leave behind will be able to handle things without us. Onrepparttar 123775 other hand, when we don't feel appreciated as we leave, we hope so strongly thatrepparttar 123776 place will just shut down by timerepparttar 123777 door closes behind us.

Truth ofrepparttar 123778 matter is, life goes on. The places we leave will be fine. Sure, they may scramble a bit to get reorganized, our former bosses may feel hurt that we would dare leave them, and we will definitely be blamed for anything that just isn't right for about a year or so later.

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