There comes a time when we are presented with an opportunity for something better than what we have. A new job or promotion which will take us closer to what we have dreamed, or you get a letter in
mail saying you may already be a winner.You might even feel like chucking it all and joining
flying Wallendas as you tour around
world on your tightrope of fame, or maybe you'll just feel
need to get off
hamster wheel and find something new.
It's all good. It is your life, and you have
right and responsibility to yourself to do what you need to do, want to do, or just would like to do.
Maybe you hate
idea of leaving a job you like a lot but know there is something better you are moving towards. Perhaps you have just been there because you couldn't see yourself doing much else for one reason or another, until now. Or, like so many, you cannot wait to tell those so-and-sos what you really think of this place as you walk out
door, head held high and never looking back.
But as you think about it, there come these mixed feelings. Yes, it is time to move on with your life. But I have so much freedom in this position. Not sure at all what I am getting myself into moving forward. They never respected me nor what I brought to
table, forget them. I was good at what I did. I hope they can handle things without me. Boy, will they be sorry I'm gone.
It isn't always easy moving from one part of your life to another. If it was a place we liked most of
time, we hope that those we leave behind will be able to handle things without us. On
other hand, when we don't feel appreciated as we leave, we hope so strongly that
place will just shut down by time
door closes behind us.
Truth of
matter is, life goes on. The places we leave will be fine. Sure, they may scramble a bit to get reorganized, our former bosses may feel hurt that we would dare leave them, and we will definitely be blamed for anything that just isn't right for about a year or so later.