The Economics of True Love

Written by Adeyemi Adetosoye


Inrepparttar real world, can there be romance without finance? A common saying: No romance, without finance. But what does it mean really? After a little thought about it and a hard look atrepparttar 110869 big picture, we see that it actually derives fromrepparttar 110870 fact that inrepparttar 110871 real world, there is actually some level of bias to any decision we make, including our decision to love or be in love.

In a land of utopia therefore, it would seem perfectly reasonable that Love would know no bounds, experience no biases. In our world however, far from any kind of utopia, biases begin to play their different roles, one way orrepparttar 110872 other.

From a financial standpoint, most women want to be secure and go with whoever comes correct as far as finances are concerned. But finances aren’trepparttar 110873 only bias in our society: upbringing, level of education, manners, carriage, height, persona, charm, etiquette, to name a few. Plus of course, he or she should be generally approved by our loved ones.

Expression of our individual biases however, does not mean we are mean people, or self-seeking individuals. Onrepparttar 110874 contrary, they point immediately to two main glaring things: that we are merely humans in an imperfect world and our very human nature, with its whims and elements of choice and free will, allow us to “filter” out our choices till we arrive at our ‘true love’.

But is this love so defined, pure and divine or is it just a load of baloney anyway? Yes it can be pure and divine; no, it is not a lot of baloney. Why? Because from our very natures andrepparttar 110875 nature ofrepparttar 110876 world in which we live in, our whims must be tolerated, till we see Prince Charming orrepparttar 110877 Fair Maiden, whoever they turn out to be.

True Love found in this manner, mustn’t be confused with “love” that stems from a desire for self-gain and greed. Yes, it is perfectly possible that finance may drive a romance. And yes, it is perfectly possible that forrepparttar 110878 less-materialistic of us, finance does drive a romance, but to a much lesser degree than may be considered healthy by most average standards.

A lust for self-gain andrepparttar 110879 romantic attachments that derive from this may only be considered greedy and disgusting (relative terms, mind), ifrepparttar 110880 romance that results is only forrepparttar 110881 material possessions and nothing else.

A financially-motivated romantic relationship then, in this guise may not be true love at all, but justrepparttar 110882 love of self andrepparttar 110883 desire for self-gain. Atrepparttar 110884 same time, whilst most ‘decent’ folk may not have a no-holds-barred attitude towardrepparttar 110885 ‘present’ material/financial status ofrepparttar 110886 one they admire, everyone wants to see thatrepparttar 110887 loved one has some “prospects”, or some desire and motivation to make something of him or herself in life. No one wants to be in love withrepparttar 110888 future bum. In this regard, because ofrepparttar 110889 basic instinct of survival which is perhapsrepparttar 110890 greatest instinct of all living creatures, humans included, True Love may be assumed.

Bad Company

Written by Nilesh Gore


|| Bad Companionship / Company. ||

By Nilesh Gore – ng411002@rediffmail.com

Here we will come to know who arerepparttar most responsible person to make your child an addicted person & failure.

In general we see kids who are addicted of tobacco , drinking, smoking, etc. addictions arerepparttar 110868 symbols of unhealthy personality. kids adopts addictions because of a] Stress, B] Depression. C] repression. (form anything) When a kid feels one of these or similar of these he wants to come out formrepparttar 110869 situations. In many countries – drinking and smoking arerepparttar 110870 accepted norms of getting happiness. At first when a kid smoke or drink - he does not get any pleasant experience / relief / happiness. But peoples around him makes him feel so. Over a period of a time he develops & adoptsrepparttar 110871 habit / addiction. In a survey it is found that kids gives similar expressions onrepparttar 110872 question “why you smoke / drink etc.?” or ”what and how you feel after / while drinking or smoking ? “ These expressions are a] I get mental peace, b] I feel more confident and aggressive, c] it is good for my tummy & helps in latrine, d] It is full of pride & sign of growing man e] it removesrepparttar 110873 loneliness, anger, depression. But this is all away form fact & just a self-deceit. Inrepparttar 110874 parental aspect whenrepparttar 110875 parents came to know about their kid’s addictions / bad habits ;repparttar 110876 (99.9% normal reaction ) parents says “ (1) He has bad Company”, “(2)He has bad friends” etc. But in reality it fiction and fact is different. Yes, Fact is different. Formrepparttar 110877 beginning / since your child born he has only company and that is you, The parent. He / she got your company for very first day. Not gettingrepparttar 110878 good company form parents isrepparttar 110879 main reason to raise new problems inrepparttar 110880 life of a kid. Confidence and every thing which requires in social life : he gets it formrepparttar 110881 home (your company).

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