Vacation in comfort with kids Three stress relief tips for families while away from home By David LeonhardtIt takes a special person to travel with kids – a parent. Children have their own needs. Their idea of a vacation is more "adventurous" than a parent's. They need constant stimulation and they can get as tired as they are tiring.
There are many top ten type lists of tips for traveling with children: how to ensure they eat well and drink enough, how to dress them for
various weather forecasts, how to provide
stimulation they need, how to make sure they don't drive off with
family car and leave you stranded in
Mojave Desert, etc.
This list is how to travel in comfort – without tying
children to
roof rack -- which hopefully will reduce your stress.
Make sure you have plenty of room while traveling.
This is easier said than done. On a plane, everybody is cramped. On a train, everybody is cramped, although a little less so. On a bicycle... don't even try it.
If you are driving, get a mini-van. Sure, you might be more of a "car" type, and you might have resisted buying a mini-van so far. But pick up a rental van for
vacation just to give
kids a little more room for fighting. (Make sure it has a roof rack, just in case.)
Reality check: Cram enough people into a tiny space and watch everybody get stressed and enraged. See my humorous but true article on hippo rage.
Accommodations along
way can be tricky. Usually it involves a cramped motel for just long enough to sleep, then back in
cramped car (or somewhat cramped mini-van). This is not anybody's idea of a home away from home.
An accommodation alternative is to camp. When not sleeping, you have all
space in
world (unless you have to huddle under
tarp while
storm passes through). I love camping, but not everyone enjoys a good early morning wake-up wrestle with a grizzly as much as I do, so a motel might be required.
Make sure you have plenty of room when you "get there".
My childhood vacations, often involved wandering around lost. Assuming you are actually heading for a destination, make sure to have lots of room when you get there. This part is easy. But it requires thinking outside
box. Forget hotels, motels, and inns. Look for private rental homes.
Probably
biggest destination for families is Walt Disney World in Florida. Good news – Orlando, Kissimmee and
surrounding area is just teeming with private vacation homes for rent. In Florida they call them vacation villas, and they offer all
space of home (without having to fix a leaky sink or oil
door hinges or mow
lawn.) Here are some examples of vacation home rentals in
Disney area.